Frances Ernareeth (Reese) Adkins Barnes

Unknown - Jul 13th, 2010
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Biography: Frances Ernareeth (Reese) Adkins Barnes, 76, died at her home on July 13, 2010 after a courageous 4 ½ year battle with ALS. Reese was born June 2, 1934 in Dothan, Alabama, the daughter of Ivy and Trudy Mae Adkins. She graduated from Dothan High School in 1952 and married Charles H. Barnes on September 17, 1954 . They were married until his death in 2000 and spent more than 45 years enjoying their family and friends through church, work, craft shows, baseball, camping, and many other activities. Reese was a teletype operator at The Dothan Eagle when she and Charles met and, she later managed retail businesses and had her own craft business. She will, however, forever be remembered as a homemaker, mother, mother-in-law, and grandmother. She truly believed in the importance of family and stressed it to her family and others. Reese spent most of her adult life in Pine Bluff, Arkansas but subsequently returned to Alabama where she and Charles had a printing business in Troy until his death. She then moved to Little Rock, Arkansas where she quickly became immersed in her active life including Calvary Baptist Church, working at Rare Finds with her daughter-in-law, and attending events associated with her grandchildren. In 2006, Reese was diagnosed with Bulbar ALS by UAMS specialist Stacy Rudnicki, M.D. (whom she absolutely adored) . Accompanied by her son, C. Lowry Barnes, M.D., she learned of her fatal disease from Dr. Rudnicki and began facing it head-on immediately. On their way home from the initial appointment, Lowry reports that his mother showed her strong faith immediately and assured him, “ Son, I am not afraid to die. I am only afraid that you and your family and Sandy (her daughter) and her family cannot handle my death”. Lowry resolved that his mother would never see him emotional over her diagnosis. Reese remained very active in her church and became an integral part of anything related to ALS. She became involved in the ALS support group and often met with others who were recently diagnosed. God used her many times to show those with ALS and even more without ALS that a faith-filled positive attitude was contagious. As her daughter, Sandy said, “It seems so unfair that Mom would have a disease that eventually prevents her from speaking because we never heard her say anything bad about anyone.” Fortunately, Reese found other ways to communicate and continued to share her love. She threw out the first pitch at the 2009 Dickey-Stephens Lou Gehrig Day and was honored as the 2010 MDA Arkansan, again throwing out the first pitch in 2010. Dedicated to helping find a cure for ALS, she published “Reese’s Southern Favorites”, a cookbook with all proceeds going to ALS research. Reese collected Santas and had about 350 on display in her home every Christmas. As recently as Christmas, 2008, she, although unable to speak or eat, was still preparing Christmas treats and hosting a Christmas party for her Sunday School Class. Reese is survived by her son, C. Lowry Barnes, M.D., his wife Tanya, and their three children Emily, Chase, and Sally, all of Little Rock. She is also survived by her daughter, Sandy Barnes Watkins, her husband Pat, and their daughter Kendall, all of Woodstock, Georgia. In addition, she is survived by her sister Sybil Walden of Dothan, Alabama and her family as well as many other loved relatives. Visitation will be at Ruebel Funeral Home from 4 to 6 P.M. on Friday, July 16, 2010. The funeral service will be at Ruebel Funeral Home on Saturday, July 17, 2010 at 11 o’clock. A private burial service will follow. Arrangements under the direction of Ruebel Funeral Home. www.ruebelfuneralhome.com. Reese has asked that memorials be made to ALS Research at UAMS or to the Building Fund at Calvary Baptist Church in the Heights.

Condolences(16)
Debbie Duren and David Boast
#16
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Lowery and Sandy, Many fond memories of you and your mom and dad when you lived in Pine Bluff. I remember what a sweet lady she was. Will keep you all in our prayers at this difficult time.
Martha Erwin
#15
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
To Dr. Lowry, Sandy and your families I wish to
express my most sincere sympathy in the loss of
your precious mother and my special friend.
So thankful to have had the privilege of visiting
with her last Sun. Wish I could have remained in LR
to attend her services.
Please be assured of my prayers and concern.
God bless you.
Martha


Janet and Fred Williams
#14
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
We will miss her smiles and gracious presence at Calvary Baptist Church. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Karen Bridges
#13
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Dr. Barnes, Sandy and families,

Sorry to hear about your mother. As most, I am sure she was the soild hold in your family and will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you and your families during these difficult times.
Mary Weiler
#12
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I enjoyed the short time that I worked with Reece
at RARE finds she was an inspiration to me as I was recovering from a stroke. My thoughts and prayers go to Lowry and the family in this time of sadness.

Mary Weiler( Susan Cohens Mom)
Marc Oudin
#11
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Sandy & Lowry,

Nancy and I would like to express our sympathy for the loss of your mother. She was certainly a courageous person.

The obituary was so nice. We were sorry to see it, but felt blessed and happy for her life and family.

Nancy and Marc Oudin
Carolyn McNutt
#10
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Dear Dr. Barnes, Sandy and family-

I feel so blessed to have met your mother. Her graciousness in the face of such a terrible disease was truly inspirational. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow.
God Bless You.

Carolyn McNutt
MDA
#9
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
We are so sorry to hear about Reece. She was a wonderful lady and will be remembered by her family and friends
Sissi Brandon
#8
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Lowry and Stacy, I am away and cannot attend your dear mother's service. It was such a joy to know her and to share our love for flowers. I have never respected anyone as much in my life as Reese. Please know that she, and your family, are in my prayers. I am so sorry that I cannot be there. Reese has left an indelible mark and will never be forgotten. Sissi
Wayne Barnes
#7
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Cousins Lowry & Sandy:
Please accept my deepest condolences in the loss of beloved Aunt Reece. After all these years, my memories of your mother are of a lovely and caring lady who knew how to create the most welcoming and relaxing environment for us during our visits to Pinebluff. Aunt Reece epitomized the true essence of southern hospitality and as a result of her lifelong benevolence and service, her impact and imprint is with us during the remainder of our own lives. Part of me smiles knowing that she is now reunited and holding hands with Uncle Jack!
A hui hou kakou (until we meet again),
Me ke aloha,
Your cousin,
Wayne
Benny Reed
#6
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Lowery and Sandy, it is with much regret that we send our condolences to you and your extended family upon hearing of the passing of Reese. We consider you and your family great friends and I know your mother will be so missed. We can only remember the good times with Charles at the 1020 Cafe, and the times with them both at the ball parks.Our prayers go with you and yours during this time. May God be with you....
Benny and Becky Reed
Marvin & Lucille Clay
#5
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Lowry & Sandy, We are so sorry about Reese. She was a good friend and a great lady in everything she did. We will miss her.
Helen Stanton
#4
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Lowery and Sandy and family
I am very saddened by the recent news of your mom. I met you both at her birthday party and she was as gracious and beautiful as ever. I first met her at an ALS meeting several years ago. (My husband was diagnosed with ALS in June, 2005 and passed away October,2008.)As soon as we met, we bonded. Who didn't love her! I always called her my sweet, little Reese. What a joy she always was. We kept in touch the last few months by e-mail. ALS is such an awful disease but her positive attitude and courage was unbelievable. What an angel she was to us all. I will miss her smile and will always have wonderful memories of our times together. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Cynthia Sieber
#3
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I would like to start by saying she will be missed by every person that was lucky enough to know her. Thank you for sending "the girls" on our trip together because if not i would never have had the chance to know her. You and your family have always treated me like i was one of the family and that means the world to me. I will miss her and will always keep her close to my heart. My entire family would like you to know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
I love you all,
Youngster
Jacque and Michael Ptak
#2
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Lowery and family, please know you are in our prayers. I met your mom when Tanya was starting Rare Finds. It was easy to see that she was a real sweetheart of a person and a huge support to Tanya and family. Always a smile on her face even with ALS. I will remember her just that way.

Jacque Hill-Ptak
Sam (Uncle Buddy) and Isabel Barnes
#1
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Lowry and Sandy:
I often said that your mom was the best thing that ever happened to my brother Charles (Jack). We always knew that she was the pillar of your family and I know she will be sorely missed. Her courage and strength in facing the awful disease of ALS was just another bright mark in her and your lives. I got a laugh every time I would call Jack and he would almost immediately give the phone to her so I would get the “straight scoop” about all of your family and have missed those calls in recent years. She was so proud of her family and I only regret that geographical separations limited our ability to share more frequent times with each other. Isabel and I will always remember our visit together when Lowry and Cathy were just babies and the wonderful visit we all had together in Pine Bluff. I trust that you know that Reese is now in a better place and can once again share that place with Jack. Please know that you are all in our prayers and know you are finding comfort in family, friends, and most of all, God.
Lowry, your tribute was amazing in that it so beautifully described her personal beauty, strength, and commitment to family and others.

Sam (Uncle Buddy) and Isabel

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