Sharon Raney Pallone

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Biography: Sharon Raney Pallone, age 69, of Rose Bud went to be with her lord and savior Jesus Christ on August 7, 2009 after fighting a life-long battle with Scleroderma. She was born August 8, 1939 in Little Rock to the late Dallas Poe (Pete) Raney and Helen Bradford Raney. Sharon graduated from Central High School in 1957. She attended Randolph Macon University in Ashland, Virginia her freshman year where she pledged Pi Beta Phi. She completed her bachelor’s degree in psychology at the University of Arkansas in 1961 and served as president of Pi Beta Phi her senior year. She went on to obtain her master’s degree in psychology from Mississippi Southern University. While working in Little Rock at the family business, T.J Raney & Sons, she met Sam Pallone who she married in 1963. They were married for 14 years and had two sons. Although diagnosed with Scleroderma in the mid 1960s Sharon was an incredible athlete. She won many golf and tennis tournaments over the country in the 1960s and was an avid horseman all of her life. In 1971, in a Little Rock pharmacy, Sharon met a young mother with a small child that was obviously neglected. She learned that the mother was retarded and schizophrenic. In her attempt to find help for this woman and her child Sharon discovered that there were no services or organizations that truly provided help for an abusive parent and their children. At that time the traditional approach to child abuse focused completely on the child and ignored the parent. The only solution the officials seemed to offer was to take the child away and put the mother back on the streets. As she advocated for the mother she met a doctor who was very interested in child abuse. He asked her to start a group that would help people who abuse their children. Never being a woman that shied away from fighting for a good cause Sharon founded SCAN (Suspected Child Abuse & Neglect). She trained 6 volunteers in the techniques that she and the doctor had been using with the mother with the basic idea that child abuse could be addressed by treating the abusive parent. She built up the service which eventually obtained state funding and opened 23 offices in Arkansas and 10 offices in other states. SCAN training was conducted in 25 states. She worked tirelessly with the Arkansas legislature to maintain funding for SCAN and was very instrumental in getting many child protection laws passed. For her dedication to abused children she was awarded an honorary doctorate of humanities from the University of Arkansas School of Law in 1976. In 1984 she co-authored a book with Dr. Lois Malkemes titled “Helping Parents that Abuse Their Children”. The book was a compilation of the successful techniques used by SCAN in treating abusive parents. The book has been used for training social services personnel throughout the country. Sharon retired from SCAN in 1998 and SCAN’s services were transferred to the Department of Human Services in 2000, ending SCAN as she had built it. However this was not the end of her good works. She then became very involved in the international prison ministry Kairos. She served on Kairos’ state board of directors from 1995 to 2005 serving four years as chairman. She also served as the official liaison between the prison administration and Kairos. In 2000 she earned her CRA (Certified Religious Assistant) certification and worked at the McPherson Women’s Unit in Newport. Although almost crippled with the effects of Scleroderma, Sharon would drive over 60 miles from her home in Rose Bud to Newport every Friday to minister to the women inmates. She cherished the opportunity to mentor the inmates and considered them her personal friends. Sharon’s accomplishments were acknowledged by two sitting presidents. In 1977 she was named one of the Top 10 American Women by Who’s Who and was honored personally by President Gerald Ford. In 1991 Sharon was awarded the designation as a “Point of Light” by then President George Bush and honored personally by the president in Washington D.C. In 1984, as a single mother, Sharon moved with her two sons to a 640 acre cattle ranch in Rose Bud, Arkansas, where she personally built a large herd of commercial and registered cattle in addition to a menagerie of goats, chickens, and horses. Sharon was a dedicated disciple of Saint Francis. No animal (or person) no matter how ugly or maligned escaped her love. She refused to allow even skunks or coyotes to be harmed on her property because they were one of God’s creatures. The Rose of Sharon Ranch is still in existence today having grown to over 1000 acres and is proudly worked by her two sons. Her love and appreciation for all of God’s creations lead her to develop a passion for photography. Her photos of Arabian horses have been sold world-wide. She especially enjoyed watching sunsets from her hilltop home on the ranch. Without question, Sharon’s greatest pride was her family. She is survived by her two sons, Pete Pallone of Pangburn, Arkansas and Dr. Mike Pallone and wife Dr. Karen Pallone of Rose Bud, Arkansas; grandchildren, Brandi Head, Dallas Pallone, and Colton Pallone; great-grandchild, McKinley Head and many beloved pets. There will be a visitation at Ruebel Funeral Home on Monday, August 10, 2009 from 6 to 8 p.m. Funeral service will be at Pulaski Heights United Methodist Church on Tuesday, August 11, 2009 at 10 a.m., with burial to follow at the Rose of Sharon Ranch in Rosebud, Arkansas. Arrangements by Ruebel Funeral Home, www.ruebelfuneralhome.com. Memorials may be made to the Cleburne County Humane Society, 104 S. 4th St., Heber Springs, AR 72543 or McPherson Chapel Fund, Inc., c/o Norman E. Madden, 2233 Jackson 30, Newport, AR 72112. Sharon was a true humanitarian in every sense of the word, a Christian Solider.

Condolences(22)
Brandi
#22
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Just thinking of you a lot today Grandma Sharon.
McKinley said she wanted to come see you. I wish we could one more time. I love you.
Glenn Sink
#21
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
My son, Glenn,Jr. had aa lot of love and respect for Sharon and her children the few years he knew them.
Glenn Sink
Brandi Head
#20
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Just thinking of you today Grandma Sharon. We had McKinley's birthday party and I wish you could have been there to take pictures like always. I know you were there watching. I miss you. Love, Brandi
Jamie (Megna) Mullins
#19
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Pete, your words so surely describe your mother. I can't imagine her intersecting a life and not leaving a positive mark. She was tough, honest, and her actions came from a love and compassion deep in her core.
It has been many years since I lived in the barn in Ferndale. I considered your mom a friend and a mentor. It was an honor to know her and quite inspiring to watch her live her life and see her loving devotion to you and Mike (but geez, you guys were such great kids!). Thinking of her over the years has brought me many smiles.
God must have an extra special work in progress to call home two strong and compassionate women such as Sharon Palone and Eunice Shriver.
Pete, Mike my prayers are with you as deal with your loss and hope your hearts are lifted by your memories of having had such an amazing woman love and cherish you.
Pete Pallone
#18
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Let me tell you about my Mama!

Here are a few adjectives that could be used to describe my mama:

Fiery
Tenacious
Un-comprising
Un-yielding
Un-wavering
Determined
Stubborn
Firm
Tough
Forgiving
Caring
Understanding
Generous

Some of you might be thinking that some of the things I have mentioned are not very flattering but think of this…..if you were in jam in life, if you had a huge problem and you needed a friend to help you and stand with you as you battled your problem wouldn’t you want your friend to be….Fiery, tenacious, passionate, un-compromising, un-yielding, un-wavering, determined, stubborn, firm, tough, forgiving, caring, understanding and generous??

Now what if you were a small helpless child and were being abused by your parents?? What if your punishment for spilling your milk was to be burned by your mother’s cigarette on your back a dozen times? Wouldn’t you want someone to help you that was fiery, tenacious, passionate, un-compromising, un-yielding, un-wavering, determined, stubborn, firm, and tough?

Mama required a lot from her family, friends, co-workers, and employees. She insisted that any job or project be completed not only competently but with a good attitude, a smile on your face and the right tone in your voice.

It would have been easy for my mama to have coasted through life. She had the financial means to do whatever she wanted but she chose a life of service to the unloved and underprivileged.

She had a true appreciation for all of God’s creations. She took thousands of pictures of flowers, fields of hay, old farm equipment, fence posts, spider-webs, and sunsets. She could find the beauty in any thing or any person.

Mama lived her life on her terms. She was not concerned or encumbered by the rules and traditions of society that the rest of us live by. She simply knew what was right and what was wrong.

I am who I am today because of my mama. She is solely responsible for whatever part of me that is good. I owe everything I have to her. I didn’t make it easy for her. I let her down and embarrassed her many times but she never did forsake me. Almost all of the bad situations I have endured in my life have been self-induced but she never waivered in her love and support. There has never been a single second of my life that I didn’t know that my mama loved me. She did a good job and I am sure God will say….”Well done my good and faithful servant”.

I owe my life to my Mama and I will miss her forever.
Mary Ann Harvill
#17
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
My husband & I are so sorry for your loss. We only met Ms. Sharon once, but she was such a delight. Her family is in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
Brandi Head
#16
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Today was perfect in every way, Grandma Sharon. I know you would be happy and pleased and proud. I will miss you always. I love you dearly.
Love, Brandi
Kimble Murphy and Family
#15
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I truly,truly admired and enjoyed Mrs.Pallone. We had some interesting and thought provoking conversations over her spaghetti pesto. We didn't share all the same viewpoints but that made it all the more interesting.I was working at Child Protective Services in the 80's and was aware of her work and impressed by her. She was awesome!!
Kent Mayfield
#14
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Warm greetings to you, Mike and Karen, in this difficult time. Seeing the kind of life your mother led in service to others, I know her place will be hard to fill.
Laura and Gene Graves
#13
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
This lovely lady taught us one of the most important lessons in life and she will always be in our hearts. She taught grace, a gift that truly will be with us forever, encouraging us to live better lives.

Sharon's gracious manner as she opened her heart and her home to children through the Black Stallion Literacy Program, made memories for a lifetime for thousands of children.

Her smile, ever warming, and that magical camera of hers will be missed, and always remembered. Thank you, Mike and Karen, for sharing her with us through your magnificent Egyptian Arabian horses. With appreciation and love, Laura and Gene Graves
Mandi Stewart
#12
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Linda Redden
#11
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I worked with Sharon at SCAN. She was a great teacher. I have many great memories. I know she will be missed by many. She has left many footprints that will live on forever.
Jerry and Doris Davis
#10
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
We know she must to have been very nice, because she has a very nice son - Mike - and the cutest
grandson, my great nephew Dallas.
Anita Allison
#9
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Did you ever ride in the car with Sharon? What an experience! Thank you Karen and Traci. Now I know it's not the "shoulder of the road", it's "Sharon's lane". And what about that ride across the farm on the car hood in the snow, with the snow flying up in our faces? You couldn't tell who was who.

Just thought everyone should know life with Sharon was a ride worth being on! From one grandma to the other, you will be missed.
Delores Ballard-CRA McPherson Women Unit
#8
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
With my deepest sympathy.
Cathy Christiansen
#7
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Sharon was what every women aspires to be, elegant, beautiful inside and out, gracious, kind, giving, talented, caring and fun to be around, a loving mother and mother-in-law, a doting grandmother, . . . This list could go on and on.

Her kindness to us during a horrible illness of a beloved horse, will stay with my family, especially my sons, for a lifetime. She knew what to say, to encourage us, to console us and to comfort us. Her graciousness in allowing our beloved Oxygen to be buried on her farm gave us immeasurable comfort. Knowing that Sharon will rest with all of these beloved animals, on the farm she so loved, gives us even more comfort.

God Bless all who loved her, as you were truly blessed by her life.

Cathy Christiansen
Beth Burton
#6
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I worked with and for Sharon at SCAN for 20 years-she became my friend, as well as my employer. I will miss our conversations. She taught me much.
Brandi Head
#5
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I love you grandma Sharon!
Ron and Trish Adams
#4
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Sharon was an extremely impressive lady with unlimited love for all of God's creatures. She will be missed greatly.
Robin Mix
#3
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
"Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud. Love is not rude, is not selfish, and does not get upset with others. Love does not count up wrongs that have been done. Love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love patiently accepts all things. It always trusts, always hopes, and always remains strong." 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7

Thank you Sharon Pallone, for helping so many to understand the Promises of Love.
Megan Raney
#2
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Sharon was my cousin, but more than that a great friend.

Lisa Raney Whitaker & I were 5 when we served as Sharon's flower girls at her wedding. She was so beautiful that day.

During the 80's Sharon & I had a blast horseback riding on her ranch.
I won't ever forget the afternoon ride that turned into an all nighter, delivering baby goats.

Her 4th of July parties at the ranch were amazing with great music, food, & friendship. All were welcome.

She helped me through tough times and was always
up for fun or getting into trouble.

I'll carry Sharon with me forever.
Lisa Whitaker
#1
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Each person has inside a basic decency and goodness. If he listens to it and acts on it, he is giving a great deal of what it is the world needs most. It is not complicated but it takes courage. It takes courage for a person to listen to his own goodness and act on it.
Pablo Casals

Sharon was a very good and courageous lady.

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