John Russ

John Russ

Oct 15th, 1943 - Nov 1st, 2025
  • Birth Date: Oct 15, 1943
  • Death Date: Nov 1, 2025
  • Funeral Date: Nov 6, 2025 at 2:30 pm
  • Location: Second Presbyterian Church, Little Roc, Arkansas
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Biography:

John Russ, licensed professional counselor, died on All Saints Day (November 1) 2025, no doubt so that the anniversary of his passing will always be remembered.

He was born October 15, 1943 to Ben Russ and Ruby French Russ. John graduated from Bradley High School, then went on to receive a BS in Speech Communication from Henderson State University, an MA in Public Address from the University of Arkansas Fayetteville and a doctorate in counseling from East Texas State University.

He met Nancy Philley at HSU when he was a sophomore and she was the Baptist Student Union Director (don’t worry. It wasn’t like that). Several years later, when he returned to HSU to teach, and Nancy left for Fayetteville to finish up her masters, John called in April to see if he could come visit her. They married June first.

The next summer, they served as missionaries to Alaska. After driving over 4500 miles, many of them on the graveled AlCan Highway, they spent much of the summer off the grid and watched the moon landing on a small television hooked up to their car battery. The next May, their daughter, Anne, was born.

After finishing his doctorate, John helped found Garland County Community College in Hot Springs where he began as Dean of Students (which he loved) and ended as Dean of Instruction (which he did not love).
When he launched his solo counseling practice, he charged $15 per session. To help build the practice, he and his wife Nancy (who was the director of the local mental health association) took to the speaking circuit to talk about mental health and human development.  One or both spoke to just about every organization in Garland County.

John sent 34 years as a counselor, first in Hot Springs and later in Little Rock. He is credited with “saving” hundreds of marriages as well as helping others survive their divorces. His specialty was grief counseling. He ran grief workshops for funeral directors as well as grief support groups at Second Presbyterian Church in Little Rock for many years.

Throughout his practice, John saw a wide range of people of all ages and professions. He loved his work with local teenagers as much as his work with doctors, lawyers and ministers.  He didn’t accept insurance because he hated paperwork, but he never turned anyone away because they couldn’t pay. A few people paid more than he charged. Some paid in Christmas cookies. 

John didn’t keep notes on his sessions because he refused to go to court in divorce or custody cases. When lawyers subpoenaed his records, he sent a list of sessions and dates.

In spite of never seeing himself as a businessman, John served as a life coach for many business professionals.  As the defacto counselor for employees of the Hatcher Agency, he and Nancy took a number of wonderful trips, including one to Greece with Greg Hatcher and his “musketeers.”

John is pre-deceased by his parents and by his nephew Mike Elkins. He is survived by his wife, Nancy, of 57 years; his daughter, Rev. Anne Russ (Robert “Skip” Lentz);granddaughter Maddie Lentz; sisters Carole Elkins and Marie Rushing; and a host of nieces and nephews.

He is also survived by the children of the late Buddy and Virigina Allen. When friend and mentor Buddy died at 42 leaving Viriginia with 10 children age 3 months to 18 years, college-student John became a big brother to them. They and their children have remained family. 

A memorial service will be held at Second Presbyterian Church in Little Rock at 2:30 p.m. on Thursday, November 6. Burial will be on Friday, November 7 at noon at the Walnut Hill Cemetery near Bradley, Arkansas.

The family wishes to thank Hospice Home Care and a host of others, too many to name, for their help, love and presence over the past few weeks.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you donate to an organization that feeds children. Memorials can be made to Second Presbyterian Church of Little Rock, Bradley Baptist Church of Bradley, Arkansas or Ferncliff Camp and Conference Center. Arrangements are under the direction of RuebelFuneralHome.com
 

Condolences(08)
Amy Glover Bryant
#8
Nov 16th, 2025 4:11 pm
I’m so sorry to hear of John’s passing. I will miss knowing I might bump in to him around town and enjoy his smile for a moment or two. My prayers are with you all, especially Nancy. Love and hugs.
Valerie Wells
#7
Nov 12th, 2025 1:44 am
John was such a caring, gentle soul. I always appreciated visiting with him. He had several wise sayings. The one I especially remember is, "When the student is ready, the teacher will come."
My deepest condolences to you, Nancy and Anne.
Kathryn Reed
#6
Nov 4th, 2025 11:18 pm
Anne & Nancy,
My heart is with you. John & Nancy lived & modeled kindness & wisdom daily & with enormous gratitude for their love & family. Quietly John & Nancy entered & changed so many lives for the better...I was blessed to be one. If our world were like John...What a positive & productive place it would be!
In my mind, John will always be "right up there" with Mr Rogers, Captain Kangaroo, Ghandi, &
Mother Teresa. John was a true Follower of His Lord in word & deed. Though I'm sad, knowing he is Home & will continue to be in our hearts as a wise counselor is a comfort & gift from God to all us who knew John.
Love & PrayerS, Nancy & Anne & family.
Mary Margaret (Neely) Breed
#5
Nov 4th, 2025 7:03 pm
Nancy, Ann, Maddie, Skip. John was a good soul. I am glad I knew him. I saw him in person seldom but with John, I always felt "seen." I am sure countless others felt the same. Best love in a sad time. Nancy, thank you for your enduring friendship and incredible strength.
Jane S Nickerson
#4
Nov 4th, 2025 2:52 pm
John was 10 years older than me. I didn’t get to know him that well, but I loved him. My grandmother, Lula was his half aunt. Grandmother’s mother died young. Aunt Ruby’s mom was Grandpa French’s 2nd wife. I went to everything I could, if I heard John or Anne were going be speaking. Grandmother used to tell me I looked like John and my Aunt Ruth Starling Baker.
Kathy Manis Findley
#3
Nov 4th, 2025 1:17 am
John will be missed by so many people, people whose lives he touched.
David Goldman
#2
Nov 3rd, 2025 11:53 pm
The first time I meet John was in 1981 when he was a counselor in Hot Springs and shared office space with the law firm I went to work with. He has been an absolute dear friend to me ever since. His warmth, his compassion, and his love for people shown so clearly through everything he did. John was, to be quite simply, the very best human being I ever knew. EVER. I loved him. People like John rarely ever visit this place we call Earth and I thank God I had the opportunity to be his friend. And John... I remember every day when you got off work you would walk across the parking lot singing, " This World is Not My Home." Well, Johnny Boy, you were right. You are home now. And I'll come looking for you some day looking for that bigger than life laugh and one of your giant bear hugs. Thank you for making life better for everyone you met. Later, my friend. Love you, Nancy.
Sharon Cound
#1
Nov 3rd, 2025 11:13 pm
Nancy, much love and peace to you. He was such a wonderful, warm, and gentle spirit.
Fondly,
Sharon

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