Elmo

Elmo "Owen" Stoker

Aug 15, 1946 - Apr 22nd, 2023
  • Birth Date: Aug 15, 1946
  • Death Date: Apr 22, 2023
  • Funeral Date: Apr 28, 2023, 11:00 am
  • Location: Arkansas State Veteran's Cemetery, North Little Rock, Arkansas
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Biography:

In grief we announce Elmo “Owen” Stoker Jr., 76, passed away following a battle with cancer. Owen was born in Warren, AR August 15, 1946, to Elmo and Claudelle (Garrison) Stoker. He lived most of his life in Little Rock where he called home.  

Following graduation from Hall High he headed to ASTC (Arkansas State Teachers College) on a marching band scholarship. He said that he played the clarinet, but his family never heard a note. Owen went off to serve his country as a member of the United States Navy. He spent time in Adak, AK and San Diego, CA, and later saw action during the Vietnam War aboard the USS Okinawa where he was an air traffic controller.  Owen came back to Little Rock following his naval career, where he became enamored by Miss Ann Nolte. They married on August 26, 1972, at Grace Lutheran Church in Little Rock. Owen and Ann enjoyed camping and fishing and loving one another until the time came to grow the Stoker unit. Small fry Cynthia followed by small fry Lindsay completed the family of 4. Together they carried on camping, fishing, and enjoying water and nature. He had continued to work as an air traffic controller as a civilian following his service in the Navy. That great period ended when Ronald Reagan decided to fire the air traffic controllers, whose union was on strike. Owen greatly disliked unions after that. He went back to school and became a certified public accountant. He worked hard as a CPA in various sectors ultimately settling in at the Timber Ridge Group where he worked for many years before retiring as their Chief Financial Officer. He’d come to make many close friends over the years before he hung up those calculators and spreadsheets.  

Owen was one of a kind. He lived for leisure. He was a voracious reader, a lover of history, a champion of wit and humor, and a formidable fisherman. His fishing prowess was unrivaled. He was a legend among friends and peers; his level of cool could not be matched. Throughout his life he caught all the fish from bream to bass to deep-sea fishing adventures, crappie to yellow fin tuna, and all the trout. He led the ranks of the family of friends known as the Brotherhood of the Hook. He loved the beauty of the White River and called Jacks Resort home many times a year. He once said, “I know this river like the back of my hand” just before hitting a rock and losing the entire lower unit of his outboard motor. Once following a devastating White River flood, Mary Hale Hinkle declared that she would need 2 rooms ready immediately, one for John Prine, and one for the Stokers. He loved trips to Shangri-la with the Brotherhood and many adventures offshore fishing in south Louisiana and Florida.

Above all else, he loved spending time with his family. Ann’s cooking was always “the best ____ he ever had”. His daughters were his proudest accomplishments. His greatest joy and source of pride was watching his beloved grandsons as they grew. Pappy was so pleased to watch the humans they were becoming and his eyes beamed whenever they were the topic of discussion. He cherished vacations to the beach, especially watching the grandboys and their sandy, salty antics. Many lifetimes’ worth of memories were made and will be endlessly cherished by those he left behind to carry on. We are grateful he has now forever escaped the allergy inducing ragweed, pesty biting flies and gnats, and most of all the dreadful chiggers lurking in the grasses.

He was preceded in death by his parents Elmo and Claudelle and his in-laws Paul and Jeanne Nolte. He is survived by his devoted wife of 50 years Ann (Nolte) Stoker, brother Dick Stoker (Sally), beloved daughters Cynthia McCrory (Scott) and Lindsay Zweifel (Jarrod), and cherished grandsons: Hayden and Owen McCrory and Fred and Walter Zweifel.

A visitation will be held Thursday April 27, 2023, at Ruebel Funeral Home from 5-7. A service will be held Friday April 28, 2023, at 11 a.m. at the Arkansas State Veterans Cemetery in North Little Rock. 

Condolences(15)
Helen and Phil Stegall
#15
May 4th, 2023 5:17 am
So sorry for your loss and holding you in heart and mind. We are grateful, as I know you are, for such good memories of fun times on the White River.
Live, Laugh, Love—Owen got that right!
Larry Kennedy
#14
Apr 30th, 2023 3:27 pm
My sympathy to Owen's family. Yes, Owen was a great clarinet player. My late wife, Virginia Lynn Kennedy, and I were in the clarinet section of the Hall Band with Owen during the 1962-1964 school years. We had a lot of good times in Mr. Boyce's band and study hall.
Carmen and Van Daniel
#13
Apr 28th, 2023 10:43 am
The years we were neighbors were some of the happiest. Owen’s air traffic control ‘speak’ always made me laugh. He was the ultimate laid back cool dad. I watched Cynthia and Lindsey grow up and loved your family so much. It hurts my heart to know he left this world but his life was lived well and you have memories to cherish.
Calvin D. Biggers
#12
Apr 27th, 2023 11:42 am
Ann i know he made you and all members of the family Very Happy. We have moved to AZ will not be able attend and hug your neck.
Calvin Biggers
Michael Grenard
#11
Apr 27th, 2023 10:41 am
Ann, Dick, Sally, and family. Paula and I offer our deep sympathy. We hope your wonderful memories with Owen will carry you and your grief during these sad days. I remember the fishing trips to Jack's Resort with this great group, great time.
James Allison
#10
Apr 26th, 2023 7:05 pm
Elmo and I were air controllers on the USS Okinawa LPH-3 in 1970 and 71. He was a good shipmate and friend. We had a lot of fun together. He was a great guy. He'll be missed by all that knew him.
Bob Gray
#9
Apr 26th, 2023 6:52 pm
You said it best Owen was one of a kind. We were shipmates and I never forget his humor, positive attitude, and (nice) practical jokes. One of a kind.
Jan and Jack Robertson
#8
Apr 26th, 2023 6:27 pm
Owen was an amazing fellow in every sense of the word. He was an amazing husband, father, and CFO! You could ALWAYS trust Owen in every situation and always count on his sense of humor to brighten the day. We will miss Owen but as he would say, ”carry on” and we will Owen with you in our hearts!
Patti Kymer
#7
Apr 26th, 2023 4:31 pm
Dick, Ann and family. This is sad news for sure. Hopefully all the good memories of sweet Owen will sustain you through this loss. I hope he and Jungle are trading fish stories right now.
Ayasha Thomason
#6
Apr 26th, 2023 12:45 pm
Ann, Lindsey, and Cynthia,
We will always remember Owen as a truly kind man. Jack has gotten to grow up loving Jack’s Fishing Resort and all of the fun times he had with Owen. We will never forget how he called him “Young Jack Townsend”. We love you all and will cherish all our memories of your sweet Dad. Love Ayasha, Rodney, and Jack Townsend.
Somer Bowden
#5
Apr 26th, 2023 10:04 am
Cynthia, And family your dad was one awesome man, from beach trip, to me getting the pleasure of working for him at Timber Ridge , will never forget that day I walked in for job interview and he always called us little Somer,.. because I was a teenager last time he saw me, his daughter Cynthia had been good friends for years , such a small world to see BIG O sitting there! You will be missed greatly! Prayers for Cynthia, Lindsey and Ann! ❤️❤️big hugs
Rachel Perez
#4
Apr 25th, 2023 11:05 am
My sympathy to Owen's family and friends! Owen was a great guy! My memory will always be of him coming into my office some mornings and asking, "Rach, what do you have good to eat?" LOL He knew I always had snacks in my desk drawer. I was happy to share my breakfast bars! RIP Big "O"!

Tom Reed
#3
Apr 25th, 2023 9:27 am
My sympathy to the family. Owen was one of my best friends in high school. He was such a kind and thoughtful person who always made me laugh. We spent a lot of time together in the clarinet section under the direction of Meryl Boyce. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Nancy Fischer
#2
Apr 24th, 2023 7:51 pm
I will never forget your great humor Big “O” ! I have many sweet memories of you and the gang. I am sure you and “M” and some of the Brotherhood of the Hook are trading fishing stories ! Rest In Peace my friend…
Susan and Charlie Johnson
#1
Apr 24th, 2023 6:02 pm
We loved our time with Owen. How blessed we were to have worked with him and called him or friend

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