Gwendolyn “Gwen” Jane Lapham Efird

Gwendolyn “Gwen” Jane Lapham Efird

Dec 13, 1933 - Jun 24th, 2022
  • Birth Date: Dec 13, 1933
  • Death Date: Jun 24, 2022
  • Funeral Date: Oct 8, 2022, 10:00 am
  • Location: Pulaski Heights United Methodist Church, 4823 Woodlawn Dr, Little Rock, AR
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Biography: Gwendolyn “Gwen” Jane Lapham Efird died on June 24, 2022 following a courageous struggle with Dementia.

She was born on December 13, 1933 in Baldwin, New York to Harold Church Lapham and Estelle Andrews Lapham. She grew up in Islip with her siblings Evelyn, Bob and Harold. She was the youngest of her siblings and was affectionately known as “Susy” growing up. This is because her father called her his brown-eyed Susan. As a teenager she was especially fond of babysitting her nieces and nephews. She also enjoyed trips to the near-by beach in Islip. She regularly attended Islip Methodist Church and was active in youth fellowship there.

After graduating from High School in Islip she attended Capital City School of Nursing in Washington DC. Following that she matriculated to Vanderbilt University to obtain her Bachelor of Science in Nursing. While at Vanderbilt she was active in the Wesley Foundation Methodist Fellowship. It was there that she met a seminary student, Ernest Eugene (Gene) Efird, of Little Rock, Arkansas, whom she married on June 16, 1957, at the Islip Methodist Church. They were married for 65 years. 

Following their graduation from Vanderbilt, Gwen and Gene lived in several small towns in Tennessee and Arkansas where Gene served as a pastor and Gwen worked as a hospital nurse. During this time, they had three children, Wendy Lynne (b. 1960), Debra Sue (b. 1962) and David Gene (b.1964).

They settled in Little Rock in 1968 and bought a home by Jimerson Creek which remained their family home off and on for the rest of their lives. Many fond memories were made there. She loved her neighbors and had a great community of support there over the years.
 
She was the troop leader of Junior Girl Scout troop 476, the first integrated Girl Scout troop in the Ouachita Council. 

Gwen began working for the Little Rock School District as a school nurse in 1970 eventually becoming the first Health Services Coordinator of a public school system in the state of Arkansas. She worked with the Governor’s wife, Betty Bumpers, to guarantee that all school children received their vaccinations. She also worked on a statewide level to increase the number of school nurses in all public schools. After receiving her master’s degree in Psychiatric nursing, she worked to provide small group experiences for children struggling with mental health issues. She remained as Health Services coordinator for over 30 years and following her retirement continued to do contract work with troubled teens for another 10 years. 

In addition to her love of her family and nursing she loved the United Methodist Church. In the 1980s she served as a Board Member of Camp Aldersgate and worked as a nurse at the Camp Aldersgate Med Camps.

One of her greatest prides was her work in recent years as the head of the Mission Life Committee at Pulaski Heights Methodist Church. In this capacity she led many Medical Mission Trips to Guatemala. In addition, she worked with many other committees at PHUMC and was active in her Sunday School class and bible study.

Gwen had a great appreciation for the out of doors and of the wonderful National Parks in our country. Over the years the family took many car camping trips to visit these parks. Gwen and Gene also traveled to many in their retirement.

Gwen loved to garden and work outside in her yard. She lived her life with courage and passed from this life to the next with grace and dignity.

Survivors include: her husband Gene Efird, three children Wendy Lynne Efird, of Little Rock, Debra Sue Efird (Peter Cvietusa) of Denver, Colorado, and David Gene Efird (Helen Baldridge) of Little Rock.
Grandchildren include Josie Lenora Efird, Lucas Efird, Audrey Cvietusa and Miles Cvietusa. She is also survived by her sisters in law Virginia Lapham and Jo Anne Efird and by numerous nieces, nephews and great nieces and nephews.

Memorials can be made to the Mission Life Committee at Pulaski Heights United Methodist Church.

A memorial service will be held in the future and will be announced once the date is determined.
Gwen has “fought the good fight, she has kept the Faith, she has finished the race.” And the World is a far better place for having had her in it! Thanks be to God! A memorial service will be held at Pulaski Heights United Methodist Church at a time as yet to be determined. Arrangements are under the Direction of RuebelFuneralHome.com

Condolences(07)
Betty Raper
#7
Sep 25th, 2022 4:35 am
It was such a blessing to have called Gwen a co-worker and friend. She was the greatest health care advocate for children, nurses and staff in the LRSD. I was privileged to work as a principal alongside Gwen as she was our school nurse at Brady while she also supervised all the nurses in the district. She treated each child as her own, and she made all of us better with her presence. My deepest sympathy to her precious family. She always radiated pure joy, and her eyes would sparkle as she talked about each of you.
Margo Bushmiaer
#6
Jul 15th, 2022 9:29 am
Prayers and condolences to Gene, her children and grandchildren. Gwen was so proud of you all and loved to share stories of your adventures. Gwen radiated peace, joy and love and shared that with thousands of children and nurses. She taught by example and gentle messages. I’m a better nurse and leader because of all she taught me. While I miss Gwen, I feel her spirit and will treasure memories of her, especially that beautiful ethereal twinkle in her eyes.
Uvita Scott
#5
Jul 7th, 2022 11:58 am
When I think of all the many blessings I received because God allowed Gwen and my paths to cross, I can’t help but say, “I miss her dearly.” But, I do look forward to meeting up with her in Heaven. May the family “Bnkurged (be encouraged), always! Uvita Scott, Ret. RN-Booker Arts Magnet Elementary School
Vicki Barney
#4
Jul 7th, 2022 10:01 am
Gwen was a shining light of encouragement to so many, including the nurse staff of LRSD. We are diminished here on earth with her loss, but heaven shines brighter than ever. Peace to Gene and their children and prayers of condolence for all.
Rev. Carol Ann Blow
#3
Jul 6th, 2022 8:55 pm
Wendy and family, the members of Sr. Thea Bowman Ecumenical Catholic Church surround you with payers. May her memory be a blessing to you. On a personal note I knew your mother to be a faithful member of the UMC and a dedicated pastors wife, Peace.
Robin Reynolds
#2
Jul 6th, 2022 6:11 pm
Gwen was such a wonderful advocate for the children in our state. She will be missed.
Mary Paal
#1
Jul 6th, 2022 5:46 pm
Gwen Efird is truly the first and last giant in school nursing. Even in the face of incredible roadblocks she never gave in, was always there for the nurses and the students in the LRSD. Her spirit truly sparkled!!!! Love you, dear one

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