Judge Sidney H. McCollum

Judge Sidney H. McCollum

Jan 21, 1940 - Apr 12th, 2022
  • Birth Date: Jan 21, 1940
  • Death Date: Apr 12, 2022
  • Funeral Date: Apr 16, 2022, 2:00 pm
  • Location: Westover Hills Presbyterian Church, Little Rock, Arkansas
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Biography: Judge Sidney H. McCollum, 82, passed away peacefully in Little Rock on Tuesday, April 13, 2022.
 
Sid, the youngest of three brothers, graduated from Conway High School, where he met his sweetheart, Kathryn “Kay” Lyford.  Both attended Hendrix College, marrying shortly after they graduated in 1962.
 
The two moved to Nashville, where Kay taught and Sid attended Vanderbilt Law School.  Upon graduation, Sid served as chief clerk for the Hon. Gordon Young of the United States District Court, served in the U.S. Attorney’s Office and eventually went to work for the prestigious Wright Lindsay Jennings firm in Little Rock.
 
After the birth of their daughter, Alison, and son, Robert, Sid moved the family to Bentonville, Arkansas, becoming a partner in a local firm and a respected leader in the fast-growing community. 
 
He served as president of the Bentonville Chamber of Commerce, as a lt. governor in Kiwanis International, as attorney for the school board and in countless other civic and church leadership post. A born performer, Sid is remembered for roles in local theater and on the square at the Sugar Creek Days festival, which he helped found.
 
In 1989, Sid  was appointed by then Gov. Bill Clinton to serve as judge to the 19th District Court of the State of Arkansas, a position to which he was later elected, and served until 1994.
 
After years of private practice and on the bench, he dedicated the next chapter of his life helping others avoid the courts.  As a pioneer in the field of mediation, Sid founded
ADR (Alternative Dispute Resolution), helping hundreds of clients find solutions to their differences over a plate of Kay’s beloved chocolate chip cookies instead of in a court room. 
 
He taught mediation at the National Judicial College, presented lectures and continuing education for attorneys across the state, severed as the chairman of the Arkansas Dispute Resolution Commission and is credited with bringing mediation to prominence in Arkansas. Never content to truly retire, Sid kept mediating all the way into 2020.
 
Sid will be remembered for his sharp and persistent wit, natural leadership skills, dedication to the service of others and flair for the dramatic. It is also said that puns run in the family.  Sid would say they practically gallop.
 
He was much loved and will be missed by Kay; daughter, Alison McCollum Camp (husband Dale, children, Will Nicholson and Sarah Nicholson, stepchildren, Sara Camp Sanders (Jeff) and Justin Camp (Michelle), step-greatgrandchildren, Corbin, Aubrey, Beckett, Jackson and Clair); son, Robert McCollum (children, Manon McCollum and Lily McCollum); a large family of nieces and nephews; and friends who feel like family.
 
All are welcome to attend a memorial service at Westover Hills Presbyterian Church in Little Rock on Saturday April 16, 2022, at 2 p.m. His ashes will be inurned at the Hendrix College Memorial Garden Columbarium in a private ceremony.
 
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Sid’s memory to Westover Hills Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Bentonville Bell Tower. Arrangements are under the direction of RuebelFuneralHome.com

 

Condolences(12)
Susan Boe
#12
Apr 26th, 2022 10:41 am
My late husband Tim served on the ADR board with Judge McCollum. Tim spoke of him frequently with admiration and respect. All my love and thanksgiving for Sid's life. May your memories of a life well lived being a comforting blessing.
James (JIM) Stanley, Jr. / Esq.
#11
Apr 23rd, 2022 3:53 pm
To: 'the good' Judge's family and those who loved him,

I join the many, many who have kind words and inspiring memories of Sid. I pray GOD will hold you very close in this time
of loss. If I could magically send each of you (who are mourning) a big, warm hug, I surely would do so. Kindest regards -- from
North Little Rock -- where my late law partner Bill Blevins introduced the Judge to me - and from that time, we became friends.
His loss will be felt by the' legal profession' and all his Arkansas pals.

Steve Gunter
#10
Apr 15th, 2022 2:15 pm
Those of us who taught in Bentonville shall always recall the care and concern this family expressed for our community.
Dean Overstreet
#9
Apr 15th, 2022 10:26 am
I first met Judge McCollum when he served as Circuit Judge in Benton county and I litigated a case before him. Subsequently I had the chance to mediate many cases with him over the years. I was in awe of his calm nature and steady hand. On many occasions he would pull me back and remind me that some issues in my case were not so good. I could always count on him to be an objective participant and assist in getting issues resolved. He earned great respect from those who worked with him. May God now grant him the eternal peace he richly deserves.
Linda Hundley
#8
Apr 15th, 2022 10:17 am
My heart stopped this morning when I read the paper. Shock and devastation took over as I read about this truly kind, generous, and problem-solving friend. We had a lovely conversation, not long ago, when he called out of the blue, to check up on me. I could hear Kay in the background relaying information to pass on. Sid was a driving force in the success of Bentonville High School gymnastics. I’ll treasure the days we spent together taking Alison to nationals in Denver. My gymnastics studio would have failed decades ago without his guidance and advice. He instilled confidence in me, gave me the nudges I needed to expand and flourish. God bless you, Sid, I will miss you terribly. Sending my love to Kay, Alison and Robert.
Frank Brannan
#7
Apr 15th, 2022 9:11 am
My friend and cousin. Running buddies in high school. Sid was very kind and will be missed by many.
Mary Schneider
#6
Apr 14th, 2022 5:17 pm
Sid was a great man. He swore me in as new attorney in 1989, and he provided my training when I became a mediator. He was very instrumental in getting mediation to AR. I also respected his Democratic politics, and appreciated his opinion greatly. I am sure he will be missed by family and friends alike. My condolences especially to Kay. Sid surely left his mark.
Deepest sympathies, Mary White Schneider
Karen Mccaulley
#5
Apr 14th, 2022 4:45 pm
Sid was one of my favorite people, sharp as a tack, funny, I was fortunate to have him act in plays I directed.He was my favorite attorney because he always wanted to be an actor. One of a kind break a leg in heaven love you Sid my heart and prayers are with your family.
Marianne Estes
#4
Apr 14th, 2022 3:55 pm
A bright light has moved on from our sight, but not from our hearts. Love to you, Kay, and to all the family.
Anna lykins Gill
#3
Apr 14th, 2022 12:53 pm
I am so sorry. Prayers for your hearts to heal.
Sid will always hold a special spot in my heart. A wonderful man.
Peggy Qualls
#2
Apr 14th, 2022 12:11 pm
Dear Kay and Family,
So many good memories, dinners and overnight stays to cherish. We will miss Sid. Sending lots of love, Johnnie and Peggy
Donald Campbell
#1
Apr 14th, 2022 11:47 am
Kay, Alison, Robert, Will and Sarah, I am saddened to learn of your loss. He was a great person and I wish I had met him earlier in my life so I could have enjoyed his company more than I was graced to have since he rejoined Westover Hills after his retirement. Well done good and faithful servant. Don

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