Robert D. Cabe

Robert D. Cabe

Jun 25, 1942 - May 14th, 2021
  • Birth Date: Jun 25, 1942
  • Death Date: May 14, 2021
  • Funeral Date: Unknown
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Biography: Robert Dudley Cabe of Little Rock, a lawyer and health-insurance executive who gave much of his life to the betterment of education in Arkansas and other civic endeavors, died May 14 at a Little Rock hospital. He was 78. He had battled complications from cancer for several years.
 
Cabe was born June 25, 1942, at Little Rock to Robert Lee Cabe and Dorris Saugey Cabe, but he was reared at Benton, where he graduated from high school. He received a bachelor of arts degree from Hendrix College, an institution for which he would have a lifetime ardor and affiliation, and then a bachelor of laws degree from Duke University at Durham, N.C. He later received an Honorary Doctor of Laws degree from Hendrix.
           
He joined the blue-chip law firm of Wright, Lindsey & Jennings in 1966 and became a partner and chair of its labor-law division. Although much of his practice was on behalf of business employers, he had a sympathy for laboring litigants. He left the firm in 1981 and opened Allen, Cabe & Lester with two other lawyers. In 1988, he became vice president and general counsel of Arkansas Blue Cross and Blue Shield, later becoming executive vice president for legal, governmental relations, and communication services. He retired in 2005.
           
In court, Cabe was the same as he was in his personal life—generous, deferential, dignified, and insistent upon truthfulness.
           
His passion for education did not begin with the birth of his two children, daughter Meredith and son Matthew, but they enhanced it: PTA, search committees for the superintendent of schools, and school elections. He was on the Board of Trustees of Hendrix College, which he served as chairman, and took a great interest in the founding and operation of the Arkansas School for the Gifted at Hendrix. He served on the state Board of Higher Education in the 1980s under appointment by his friend Governor Bill Clinton, after the legislature passed a law greatly magnifying the agency’s power to review and affect the academic programs at each of the publicly supported colleges and universities. He chaired the Quality Higher Education Study Committee.
           
In 1973, he, Chris Barrier, Walter Nunn, and Chuck Chappell formed a book club. Since then, it has met monthly for 48 years.
           
He held a diverse and lengthy series of leadership positions in organizations that exist for public service and community betterment, serving on the boards of directors of LifeQuest of Arkansas (chair); Blue and You Foundation for a Healthier Arkansas (chair); Arkansas Repertory Theatre Foundation; National Conference for Community Justice, from which he received its Humanitarian Award; Arkansas Symphony Orchestra Society Foundation (chair); Arkansas Repertory Theatre (chair); Winthrop Rockefeller Foundation (chair); Arkansas Symphony Orchestra Society (chair); and the Arkansas Museum of Science and History.
 
He was unfailingly kind. He was especially generous with those he loved, who could count on a listening ear, a crossword puzzle clue, a lap for a tired dog, a Girl Scout cookie order, or a piece of his Shipley’s bear claw. He loved fishing, golfing, and a well-made martini. He was a lifelong, committed liberal Democrat, and he was known occasionally to disapprove of poor grammar and overly long obituaries.
 
Survivors are his wife, Julie McDonald Cabe; children Meredith Cabe (Peter Hutchins) of Silver Spring, Maryland, and Matthew Cabe (Sarah Hantz) of Fayetteville; grandchildren Eva, Lila, and Mae Hutchins; and an assortment of granddogs.He is also survived by his stepmother Alene Glosson; brothers Alan Cabe (Gina) and Drew Cabe (Sue); stepsisters Sheila Stewart and Stephanie Lott; and their children and grandchildren.
 
A memorial reception will be held at Ruebel Funeral Home on Friday, June 18th, 2021 from 5-7pm. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages those who wish to make donations to consider Hendrix College, the Arkansas Symphony Orchestra Society Foundation, the Arkansas Repertory Theatre Foundation, or LifeQuest of Arkansas.

Condolences(23)
John Cairns
#23
May 25th, 2021 11:20 am
I was Bob's roommate in the summer between our 1st and 2nd years at Duke. All of the descriptors in the obituary are the way I think or and remember about Bob. He did talk on and off over the years mostly about education matters as I helped invent charter
schools here in MN and assisted in getting the Arkansas charter legislation adopted.
Joan Gartman Moltz
#22
May 25th, 2021 10:45 am
Julie, so sorry to learn of the loss of your husband. Many prayers for the days ahead. It will be quite a journey, but lean on your friends and family and the promise of seeing him in heaven.
Carolyn J Henry
#21
May 25th, 2021 10:29 am
Julie,
So sorry to hear about Bob's passing. I didn't realize he had been ill. He was a "gentleman's gentleman" and so easy to work with. I have wonderful memories of board meetings and dinners with both of you. You are in my prayers.
Lillie Mosley Shoptaw
#20
May 23rd, 2021 3:49 pm
Julie: I was so sorry to hear about your husband. My love and prayers for you and his family and friends.
Regina Favors
#19
May 22nd, 2021 3:54 pm
Julia,
Daniel and I extend our sincerest condolences to you and the rest of the family. I had the pleasure of working with Bob at Arkansas Blue Cross and Blue Shield where he was always supportive and a perfect gentleman. I always made time to offer assistance and never to busy to lend a listening ear. RIP Bob. Your legacy will live on.
Gail W. Damron
#18
May 22nd, 2021 11:17 am
Julie,
I am sorry for your loss . Praying for comfort and peace.
Dan Stevens
#17
May 20th, 2021 2:16 pm
This write-up states, "he was unfailingly kind." That is so true. In the mid-90s when I joined Ark Blue Cross, he took the time out of his crazy busy schedule to call me and say, " WELCOME! It's always great to have another Hendrix grad join our organization." It was a pleasure for me to work with him on various projects over the years. Prayers to the family.
Ginger Kneller
#16
May 19th, 2021 4:38 pm
Julie, I am so sorry for your loss. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.
Diane H. Lyons
#15
May 19th, 2021 12:58 pm
Julie, Meredith, and Matthew, my deepest sympathy. my thoughts are with all of you.
Rene Townsley Lovett
#14
May 19th, 2021 6:03 am
Having worked with Mr. Cabe at Blue Cross, I can attest to much of what was written in his obituary. Upon becoming in charge of the Communications team, he gifted each of us with a copy of STRUNK AND WHITE: THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE. This was in an effort to combat our dependence on the AP STYLEBOOK of which he did not approve. :) I still have a vey kind letter of commendation he wrote to me from that time. My condolences to all of you.
Bill Lowe
#13
May 18th, 2021 8:42 pm
Saddened to hear of Bob's death. He was a gentleman's gentleman in all regards of his personal and professional life.
Ann Gunn Clark
#12
May 18th, 2021 8:24 pm
Julie,
I am so sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Richard Mann
#11
May 18th, 2021 5:39 pm
Julie-having known Bob since 1961 at Hendrix, and beyond professionally, Bob lived a great life and will be missed by all who knew him.
Patrick O'Sullivan
#10
May 18th, 2021 3:01 pm
Bob hired me and was my boss and mentor for almost 27 years at Arkansas Blue Cross Blue Shield and the Blue & You Foundation for a Healthier Arkansas. He was always kind and supportive and expected the highest level of integrity and professionalism from himself and those he worked with. He helped so many people and organizations in Arkansas. I'll miss his smile and gentlemanly ways. Our condolences to Julie and their family.
Janie Fenton
#9
May 18th, 2021 9:13 am
Julie,

I was so saddened to read of Bob's loss. He was a gift to us at Blue Cross, to the legal community and the larger community as well - truly a gentleman and a scholar. I always said that if you looked up the term "General Counsel" in the dictionary, there would be a picture of Bob right next to it. He will be missed. Sending love and prayers to you and your family.
Lee & Mauri Douglass
#8
May 17th, 2021 10:27 pm
Julie,
Mauri and I were so sorry to hear of Bob’s death. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Beth and Mike Coulson
#7
May 17th, 2021 5:21 pm
Julie, Bob was such a tremendous leader for our city and will be missed. A great man.
Marla Johnson
#6
May 17th, 2021 4:16 pm
I met Bob years ago when I was on the board for Arkansas Advocates for Children and Families. Then, had the privilege of working with him again on the Blue and You Foundation board. Bob impressed me with his calm and wise leadership. I will miss him.
Linda & Phil Deloney
#5
May 17th, 2021 12:32 pm
Terribly sorry to learn of Bob's death. Peace and love to all of you.
Steve Murphy , Sheridan
#4
May 17th, 2021 12:21 pm
Julie, I am sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Sally Allen
#3
May 17th, 2021 10:32 am
Julie, I’m so sorry to read about Bob’s passing away. Please know that you are in my prayers. Affectionately, Sally Allen
Ben mcminn
#2
May 16th, 2021 5:55 pm
So sorry
Bob Ross
#1
May 16th, 2021 5:19 pm
Julie, I was saddened to read of Bob's death. Please know my thoughts are with you and all the family in this difficult time..

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