Joel Wilson Pugh II

Joel Wilson Pugh II

Jul 28, 1932 - Mar 8th, 2021
  • Birth Date: Jul 28, 1932
  • Death Date: Mar 8, 2021
  • Funeral Date: Unknown
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Biography: The Very Reverend Joel Wilson Pugh II—beloved preacher and teacher, husband and father, whose life and career spanned nearly nine decades and two continents—died peacefully on Monday, March 8, 2021 at his Little Rock home, his wife Caroline at his side. He was 88.
 
Joel Pugh delivered hundreds of sermons, shepherded thousands of parishioners, and believed in the power of Christ’s Gospel. He told good stories, appreciated clever puns, and relished crossword puzzles. He adored small children and rousing hymns, mixed a perfect dry martini, and was at his happiest browsing the aisles of a well-stocked hardware store. He also was an appreciator of the art of the obituary, admiring those that communicated the full arc of a long life with verve and without sentimentality.

Born on July 28, 1932, in St. Vincent’s Infirmary in Little Rock, Joel Pugh was the son of Robert Dean Pugh and Louise McLeod Pugh Nash. An observant child and voracious reader, he began his schooling at Portland (Ark.) Elementary and graduated from Pine Bluff High School in 1950. He went from there to college and graduate work at University of the South in Sewanee, Tennessee, receiving a BA in 1954 and a Master of Divinity in 1957.

He returned to Arkansas to be ordained and to take up his first parish ministry at Good Shepherd Episcopal Church in Little Rock. In 1960, he departed for England to pursue doctoral studies in theology at Oxford University. Two years later he became assistant chaplain of University College, Oxford, where he met Caroline Maud, a professional actress and daughter of the then-head of the College. Soon after coming back to the United States and his alma mater to become chaplain at the University of the South, he asked Caroline to marry him. Fortunately for us all, she said yes, and in 1967 they married and returned to Tennessee.

After six years of ministry to the campus community in Sewanee, he became Rector of The Falls Church, the historic North Virginia parish established in 1732, where George Washington once worshiped and served as church warden. But the pull of Arkansas was strong, and in 1977 he accepted the call to become Dean of Trinity Episcopal Cathedral in Little Rock.

He and Caroline planted deep roots in the community. They moved downtown, buying and renovating a historic home one block from the Cathedral and becoming part of a lively and nurturing Quapaw Quarter community. They hosted concerts, fundraisers, family parties, and invited any parishioner without nearby family to join them at their Thanksgiving table. Their Christmas parties were memorable not only for the good cheer exchanged and the carols sung, but also for Joel’s insistence on lighting the tree with real candles rather than string lights. (He kept a fire extinguisher at the ready throughout.) They became deeply engaged in the work of the Arkansas Repertory Theatre, where Caroline regularly performed and both Pughs served on the Board of Directors.

He stepped down as Dean in 1994, but “retirement” was only a technical term for Joel Pugh, as he soon agreed to become chaplain of Christ Chapel in Hobe Sound, Florida, where he remained until 2002. During those years, he and Caroline also lived part-time in Salisbury, England, where they bought a home in the shadow of 800-year-old Salisbury Cathedral.

Returning home to Arkansas for good in 2009, he and Caroline became members of St. Andrew’s Anglican Church and devoted patrons of local arts and charitable organizations. Although he was increasingly physically limited by Parkinson’s Disease and other illnesses, his intellect and sense of humor remained undimmed until nearly the very last.
He leaves his wife, Caroline, of Little Rock; his daughter and son-in-law, Margaret and Jeff O’Mara of Mercer Island, Washington; his son and daughter-in-law, John and Liz Pugh, of New York, New York; and grandchildren Molly O’Mara, Abby O’Mara, and Jozef Mahoney. Also surviving him are his elder brother, Robert D. Pugh of Little Rock and Pine Bluff, his younger brother John Nash of Oklahoma City, and many other beloved family members.

The family would like to thank the caregivers who made such a difference in the last years of Joel’s life: George Howard, Waymon Vault, John Hughes, Cedric Cooper, Crawford Matthews, Lennox Johnson, Tovya Prince, Cynthia Tyson, and Alvin Willis. We also thank his medical team: Dr. Samantha Watt at the Arkansas Longevity Center; Edward Drangle at Ageless Health and Fitness; Melanie Barton, physical therapist; and the care team at Kindred Hospice.

Due to pandemic restrictions, a memorial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to Kairos Prison Ministry of Arkansas, P.O. Box 914, Benton, AR 72018 or at https://www.kairosofarkansas.org/donate.html.

Condolences(13)
Cedric C Cooper Sr
#13
Mar 22nd, 2021 4:35 pm
I have truly enjoyed working for the Pugh family,and have come to care about them all.
Thank Pastor, I am going to miss you. You all have changed my life in more ways then you will even know.
Thanks Mrs “C”for everything, Miss you Pastor
#MiMan!
Anncha Briggs
#12
Mar 15th, 2021 5:58 pm
So sorry to read about your loss. Anncha
Carl Goosen
#11
Mar 15th, 2021 5:47 pm
Mr. Pugh would bring to me a chair or some piece of furniture to be repaired Although I did not know him well, I found him to be quite an interesting person to speak with, I admired his grace and his thoughtfulness that he carried within himself . I always looked forward to seeing him again ever so often, just because he was such a nice person I am saddened that he has passed but I am sure he is were he belongs in the grace of our lord
Richard Allen
#10
Mar 15th, 2021 10:52 am
I was blessed to serve with Joel in the Kairos Prison Ministry. Joel was witness of Jesus Christ love, understanding, mercy and forgiveness to the inmates as well as those of us from the free world who served with him on the teams.
Gary Weiss
#9
Mar 13th, 2021 4:49 am
I have wonderful memories of Dean Pugh from his tenure at Trinity. He was so helpful during many of my teenage struggles - always listening and engaging. I credit Fr. Pugh for his spiritual guidance as it impacted my life toward self-acceptance and personal growth. I only wish my husband, Tim, could have known him. God bless his family during this tough time. May he rest in peace and arise in glory.
Marcy Block
#8
Mar 12th, 2021 4:45 pm
Joel Pugh was a gentle man, but a fierce warrior for Jesus Christ. Wow!
Lillian Porter
#7
Mar 12th, 2021 10:02 am
The great blessings of being parishioners at Trinity Cathedral from the start of Joel's ministry to the last day were
almost as countless as the stars for my late husband Jim and myself. Many happy memories. My condolences to
Caroline, Margaret, John, and family. A wonderful man.
carolyn and jerry Staley
#6
Mar 11th, 2021 10:09 pm
Dear friends, we mourn with you as we celebrate this wonderful life of Joel and his ministry and service. Prayers for peace and many blessings and joyful memories.
Carol Hampton Rasco
#5
Mar 11th, 2021 9:14 pm
Caroline, I remember with such fondness many encounters and lively discussions with Joel and often with you present and adding to the thoughts we shared in relation to the Cathedral School and our common interests as well in the Rep and the Symphony and other arts/educational organizations. Please know I hold you and your family in my prayers and in gratitude for the life of Joel..
Carol Hampton Rasco
Charlottesville, Virginia
Thomas Pasquesi
#4
Mar 11th, 2021 8:23 pm
Dear Pugh Family, I am so sorry for your loss. What an incredible, well lived life. I have no doubt that his memory will be cherished and his legacy and influence long lived by all those who knew him. Lots of love, -Thomas Pasquesi (Northwestern Classmate of Margaret)
Jane wolfe
#3
Mar 11th, 2021 7:44 pm
Blessings prayers and love to all pughs snd maids and praise for the excellent job they did in ministering to a man of many surprises and delights. We will miss Joel but will rejoice always in his ministries among us. Hope he is enjoying the many benefits is heaven and the blessings of those around him. Yay Joel! Jane
Nick & Jerillyn Nicholson
#2
Mar 11th, 2021 6:56 pm
Love to each of you, my dear friends. Joel left a wonderful legacy. He is loved & missed.
Ellen Gray
#1
Mar 11th, 2021 5:34 pm
A life well lived. God bless.

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