Mary Jim Chickering

Mary Jim Chickering

Oct 22nd, 1916 - Sep 1st, 2020

Biography: Mary Jim Chickering peacefully passed away Tuesday, September 1, 2020, at home in Little Rock, Arkansas. She was born October 22, 1916, in Ashland, Alabama to her parents James and Pauline Lane and moved with her family to Little Rock, Arkansas, when she was 3. Early in life she aspired to be a ballerina and made her stage debut at the age of 4. She later decided to become a dietician and attended the University of Arkansas, majoring in chemistry and foods, and spent a post-graduate year studying institutional management and quantity cooking.
 
Visiting friends in San Antonio, Texas, she met a young Army Air Corps officer, Lieutenant Edwin S. Chickering, and in March of 1940 the couple married. They began the migratory life of service families, living on or near air bases from Hawai’i to the eastern seaboard. During World War II when her husband was in Europe, Mrs. Chickering’s training as a dietician proved invaluable when she instructed San Antonio, Texas, Red Cross volunteers in canteen duties, often feeding 1,000 people at a time.
 
At Maxwell Air Force Base, Alabama, between 1947 and 1948, Mary Jim served as president of the Officers’ Wives Club. She also helped create “Stove Pilot”, an illustrated collection of recipes gleaned from Air Force wives and their husbands. Funds from the sale of over 50,000 copies have aided underprivileged children and students the world over.
 
While a student at the University of Arkansas, Mary Jim joined the Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority, and in later years became national vice-president in charge of the sorority’s philanthropic affairs. She also studied with Dr. Howard Ruck of Bellevue Hospital in New York and helped organize sorority grants for rehabilitation scholarships.
 
While living in Alexandria, Virginia, and her husband, now a Brigadier General, was working in the Pentagon, Mrs. Chickering enrolled in the American University and earned a degree in Interior Design. She embarked on a successful career working for Lord and Taylor at their Falls Church store in the Interior Design Studio, designing furnishings and appointments for many fashionable private homes and for the Mormon Temple in Washington, D.C. She was a member of the American Society of Interior Design (ASID).
 
When General Chickering retired from the Air Force, the couple moved back to Little Rock and shared a lovely condominium at Country Place. They split their time between Country Place and Grandfather Golf and Country Club in the Blue Ridge mountains near Linville, North Carolina. Mary Jim and General Chickering were instrumental in the founding of the Clan Hamilton Society in the U.S. Mary Jim entertained many clan members and guests in the Clan Hamilton tent at the Grandfather Mountain Highland Games, and her ham biscuits became legendary. General Chickering passed away in February 2003.
 
Mary Jim summarized her life as a military wife this way: “It is a great opportunity to see the military and civilians learn about each other and form lasting friendships. One feels a mutual interest in churches and school, too. I wouldn’t give anything in the world for the places we’ve been and the people we’ve met.”
 
Mrs. Chickering is survived by her son, Jim Chickering and daughter-in-law Robin Chickering of St. Louis, Missouri, her grandchildren Allison Chickering of Las Vegas, Nevada, and Edwin Chickering II, also of St. Louis, her caregiver Alma Dennis who kept her healthy and happy for many years, many cousins, and a host of admiring friends.
 
In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Easter Seals of Arkansas, 3920 Woodland Heights Road, Little Rock, AR, 72212, All Saints Episcopal Mission, P.O. Box 117, Linville, NC, 28646, The Friends of the Air Force Academy Library, P.O. Box 186, U.S. Air Force Academy, CO, 80840, or to another worthy cause.
 
Visitation will be at Ruebel Funeral Home in Little Rock, Arkansas, on Saturday, September 5, 2020 from 2:00 p.m. until 4:00 p.m.,. Interment will be at Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, Virginia at a later date.

Condolences(07)
Anne Lawton Nevitt Hill
#7
Oct 28th, 2020 9:48 am
I have so many cherished memories of Mary Jim, Chick, and Penie from my childhood at Maxwell and Alexandria. My father and Chick lived together as bachelors in San Antonio when they were flight instructors at Kelly Field and courting Mary Jim and my mother... they were lifelong dear friends. Mary Jim was my Godmother and one of the dearest people in this world. Iam so thankful for her life.
Evans Family
#6
Sep 17th, 2020 3:59 am
In the loss of your love one, May the memories that mean the most to you live forever in your hearts.
May the God of all comfort help to ease the pain of your grief. Truly sorry for your loss.
Marsha Allbritton
#5
Sep 6th, 2020 3:23 pm
I first met General and Mrs Chickering at a Kappa Couples Christmas Party in the early nineties. I also had the privilege several times to pick her up for Little Rock Kappa Alumnae functions. She was a very lovely and sweet lady. What an amazing life! I am so sorry for your loss. I know you have many special memories of them both. Marsha Allbritton
Maureen Calhoon
#4
Sep 3rd, 2020 8:21 pm
Mrs. Chickering was one of my favorite patients, at Hatley Family Dentistry, before I retired as a Dental Hygienist. She was so interesting to visit with and always meticulously dressed. I so enjoyed hearing about her summertime adventures playing croquet? I’m glad she lived a long full life and know she will be missed by all who loved her. Prayers for peace and comfort for her family.
Ann Treadway Henry
#3
Sep 3rd, 2020 10:33 am
My thoughts and prayers are with Mary Jim's family!
I'm. also, a Kappa Kappa Gamma.
Dr. H. F. "Bunny" Brown, III
#2
Sep 3rd, 2020 7:04 am
It was my pleasure to have known General Chickering, Mary Jim and her lovely mother. Finer people you would never meet. She was the epitome of a true Southern Lady. She and I used to share recipes. May she now enjoy the meal that has been prepared for her in heaven and see the face of GOD. May she Rest in Peace in her eternal life.
Dr. H. F. "Bunny" Brown, III
Nan Ellen and Jack M East
#1
Sep 2nd, 2020 5:58 pm
Mary Jim Chickering was a beautiful person, inside and out. She and General Chickering were close friends with my family, and my brother Remmel Dickinson and Jack and I were fortunate to know them. To Jim, Robin and your children/ family, we are sorry for your loss. With 103 years of wonderful interests, good works, great cooking and important projects, Mary Jim leaves a legacy enhanced by love and kindness. With our sympathy. Nan Ellen and Jack.

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