Mary Clare Dowell Brierley

Mary Clare Dowell Brierley

Jun 19, 1939 - Jun 29th, 2020
  • Birth Date: Jun 19, 1939
  • Death Date: Jun 29, 2020
  • Funeral Date: Unknown
  • Location:
  • Print this Obituary

Biography: Mary Clare Dowell Brierley, at 81 years old, was finally freed from her struggle with Alzheimer’s, on June 29, 2020, in Little Rock, Arkansas.   Mary was also born in June, in 1939, to the late Walter Anthony “Junie” Dowell, Jr. and Clare Phillips Dowell in Jonesboro, Arkansas, although she lived and grew up in Walnut Ridge.  Her great sense of humor, big dimpled smile, and overall zest for life got her places early on, being nominated Homecoming Queen of Walnut Ridge High her senior year.   
 
Mary went on to attend college at Mary Baldwin for a year then transferred home, to the University of Arkansas, where she graduated with a BA in Education.  But perhaps even more meaningful than her degree was being a Chi-O and the many life-long friends that organization has fostered. 
 
Mary started her professional career as a teacher.  She taught in private schools in St. Louis and New York City before getting married to Adie Dietz and starting her own family.  After Mary divorced, she moved back to Arkansas, not to her home town but to the big city of Little Rock where her many friends lived.  There she migrated from teacher to sales rep and Mary hit her stride, although she did hit one major stumbling block. 
 
Almost everyone knew that Mary was a recovered alcoholic for 32 years.  She loved “The Program,” going to meetings and her regular lunches at Ciao’s.  Because of the dramatic improvement Mary had as a result of being sober and working the program, she enjoyed sharing her experience and was an enthusiastic, active sponsor of others who struggled with addiction.  
 
Her volunteer and philanthropic work included serving several years on the Board of Wolfe Street Foundation and campaigning for Bill Clinton’s Governor and Presidential runs.
 
Mary Clare, as she preferred to be called, was a charismatic story teller with a great sense of timing and she would raise one eyebrow for dramatic emphasis.  Of the many Mary stories, one that is likely most-often-told involved a convertible car, a monkey purchase, and getting kissed on “these very lips” by the King of Rock-n-Roll, Elvis Presley.
 
In February of 2003 Mary married the love of her life: Bill!  They truly enjoyed the golden years together, spending many glorious evenings with friends and family entertaining in the home they decorated together (yes, also with Garry Mertins), going to the Symphony, The Rep, and openings and lectures at The Arkansas Arts Center.  But one of their greatest pleasures as a couple was travel.  Bill and Mary took many fabulous trips to Europe, Asia, Africa and South America.  Mary loved to absorb the culture through dining, art and engaging with locals, often making new friends along the way, typically while shopping for her grandchildren.
 
Mary is survived by: her husband, William “Bill” Brierley, her standard poodle, Stella, her two children, Clare Phillips Dietz and Theodore Kurt “Ted” Dietz and his spouse, Diane Dietz, her two stepchildren, Dr. Penny Brierley-Bowers and spouse Keith Bowers, and Alice Brierley and spouse Freddy Johnson; her seven grandchildren, Emelia Clare, Eleanor James, Lily Dowell and Lucy Byers Burks, Kori Wallace and Perri Brierley-Bowers, and William Oliver Johnson; her two siblings, Walter Anthony ”Tony” Dowell, III and his spouse Annette Dowell, and Delia Dowell “Dee” Buffington and her late spouse, Tom Buffington; her two nieces Delia Robinson Banister and Charlotte Swan Dowell and her nephew Walter Dowell “Dow” Wright and his spouse Jennifer Wright.
 
In lieu of flowers we kindly request donations to Wolfe Street Foundation or Arkansas Arts Center.
 

Condolences(09)
Clare Seyer
#9
Aug 6th, 2020 10:48 am
Bill, Clare and Ted, I am so sad to hear we have all lost Mary Clare. Her smile and laugh will be with me forever. I send my love to you all.
Nancy DeLamar
#8
Jul 14th, 2020 6:47 pm
I’m so sorry to learn of Mary Clare’s death. She loved her family so much and was so proud of their many accomplishments. She especially adored and admired her husband. May the love and sympathy of many friends bring some small measure of comfort.
Melissa Mayes
#7
Jul 9th, 2020 7:00 pm
My condolences to the family and friends of Mary Claire. She had a beautiful soul. Her smile and wit will not be forgotten. Her sense of style and sophistication always impressed. I'm honored to have known her. Thinking of you Teddy and Claire. Lots of love, Melissa Mayes
anncha briggs
#6
Jul 9th, 2020 12:13 pm
I am so sorrry for you Bill. Mary Clare was so wonderful, fun, kind and helpful. I am glad the two of you found each other and had many adventures together.
Roslyn Knutson
#5
Jul 7th, 2020 10:17 am
I can't spell the phrase that comes immediately to mind when I think "Mary Clare" but you all will know exactly what I'm trying to recreate with "how's your momma 'n them?" I can't say it either, like Mary Clare, could. But it conjures up so much of what made her unique: wit, the comic smirk, the accent, the sense of community, the immediate warmth of a personal history whatever the actual time-lapse in being together. That pledge year is forever one of my most precious memories, and Mary Clare is central to that point in time.
Jenny Adair
#4
Jul 5th, 2020 4:31 pm
Although I am thankful Mary Clare is out of Alzheimer’s misery, I am still so very thankful I knew her as a wonderful person and friend.
Thanks for the memories! You were one of the Best!
Kay Fisher
#3
Jul 5th, 2020 11:42 am
Everyone who met Mary Clare knew a bright new light had entered their lives. None of us will be the same. I met her at Mary Baldwin, and we were immediately hooked at the hip. We even lived in New York City at the same time for a while. When I moved back to Little Rock after becoming a widow, I called her, and nothing would do but that I was taken under her wing. She wanted me to join anything she belonged to. Blessed Bill never complained when he had to cart me around with them to the Museum, to every play or symphony. How blessed I was. I moved to Alabama last year to get on with my life, and there's never been a day when I didn't miss her. The huge Birthday Party Bill threw for her is the last time I saw her. I've lost part of my heart. I love you, Mary Clare, and I always will. Kay Hundley Fisher PS: She endeared herself to me at Mary Baldwin when she told me she knew the meaning of existentialism! I was totally gobsmacked. (We had many good laughs about that. After that, I never took her off her pedestal.)
Anna Swallow
#2
Jul 4th, 2020 3:37 pm
My dear sweet Mermaid - I will always cherish your smile, your bright eyes, your incredible sense of humor, and your ability to make all around feel loved. God speed
Drew Daugherty
#1
Jul 4th, 2020 11:02 am
Bill, I’m so sorry for you. I loved Mary Claire And look forward to us getting together to share some good memories of her. Call me anytime, drew

Leave your Condolence






* Enter verification code
Mathematical catpcha image
=
Top