Paul M. Menefee

Paul M. Menefee

Mar 15th, 1928 - Jun 14th, 2020
  • Birth Date: Mar 15, 1928
  • Death Date: Jun 14, 2020
  • Funeral Date: Jun 20, 2020 at 1:00 pm
  • Location: Christ The King Catholic Church (4000 N. Rodney Parham Rd, Little Rock, AR 72212
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Biography:

Paul M. Menefee, 92, of Little Rock passed away peacefully at his home of the past 36 years, June 14, 2020.

He was born in Fort Wayne, Indiana March 15, 1928 to A.E. and Lillian (Strebig) Menefee. He married Mary Lou McGann on September 9, 1961 in Peoria, Illinois and quickly started their greatest adventure, raising a family of 4 sons and one precious daughter, Molly Menefee-Donner, who recently preceded him in death. He was also preceded in death by his parents; three brothers: Robert, Gerald, and Joseph, and three sisters: Lillian, Marilyn, and Mary.

Besides Mary Lou, he is survived by his sister, Betty;  four sons, Tim (Jill), Joe (Angie), Tom and John (Susan) Menefee; three grandsons, Andrew Donner, Carter and Zach (Haileigh) Menefee; one granddaughter, Alex Menefee, one great-grandson Cash Menefee and many nieces and nephews.

Paul was a 1944 graduate of South Side High School in Fort Wayne, then joined the United States Navy soon after. He served on the USS Gardiners Bay and earned the WW II Victory Medal while on active duty where he toured the Pacific Islands after the war. He spent a total of 10 years in service to our country including 7 years in the Naval Reserves.

He left Fort Wayne in 1950 to begin work at Monroe Business Machines where he was a dedicated employee for 29 years.  After a brief stint at Caterpillar in East Peoria, he moved with his family to Little Rock, AR where he worked at The Arkansas Department of Health from 1984-2000. Paul had a unique talent to make any short story longer than needed and the twinkle in his eye when he ran across someone who hadn’t heard his latest meant they were in for a good one. “No ifs, ands, or buts about it”, his stories were as enjoyable as they were long winded.

Among his most impressive accomplishments, Paul never missed a day of school from grade school through graduating high school.  Many believe that was as much to pester the teachers as to ensure his lessons were learned. His circle of friends was small but tight, and he was fiercely loyal for those he was closest. He maintained relationships with childhood friends, especially Tim McCarthy, the Voice of Safety for Notre Dame Football as well as many in Peoria, like the Bienemans, Heinrichs, Raes, and many others.

Paul was involved with many volunteer and service organizations throughout his life, including the West Peoria Fire Department, where he met his wife; the Boy Scouts of America; several Catholic Organizations including the TOBY; St Vincent’s Hospital where he regularly worked as a  Patient Escort for ten years after retiring in 2000; and was a member of the American Legion.
Paul’s greatest investment was in his family and he worked tirelessly to keep his large family well fed. He was a bargain shopper and knew all the butchers at his favorite stores by name. Art Savage from Haddads topped them all and became his dear friend. On any visit, he had the menus planned for meals for the duration of the visit and would review them regularly for accuracy and changes. He always had time for a cold beer and a long chat for those that visited, but children and dogs had a special place in his heart.

For nearly 59 years, Paul shared his best and worst moments with Mary Lou, who was there by him until the end. Besides their Catholic Faith, they enjoyed a rich and full life that included regular visits back to Peoria and Fort Wayne to visit family and friends. One of their favorite events was the West Peoria Fourth of July Parade, and they rarely missed a Class Reunion. Their fall afternoons revolved around Notre Dame Football and they always kept an eye out for the next local fundraiser to support or Blue-Chip Stock to buy.

The family would like to send our sincere appreciation to his caregivers who helped make his life comfortable to the end, especially David, Andie, and Jasmine for going above and beyond during his last days.
Visitation will be held from Noon until 1 pm, Saturday, June 20, at 4000 N. Rodney Parham Rd, Little Rock, AR with the Memorial Mass starting at 1 pm.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations in Paul’s name to the Down Syndrome Advancement Coalition of Arkansas, 9064 Greenstone Drive Alexander, AR 72002 or St Jude Children’s Research Hospital 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105 USA. Also, if you get the chance, support a local Fire Department, Veterans Organizations, Church or Community Festival.
 

Condolences(22)
Kathy and Frank Baker
#22
Jul 23rd, 2020 3:36 pm
Aunt Mary Lou, It was with great sadness that I read your card about Uncle Paul's passing. We always enjoyed having you and Uncle Paul visit. So sorry it could not have been more often. Please know that you, Tim, Tom, Joe and John and families are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless all of you.
Delia James
#21
Jun 24th, 2020 3:31 pm
So sorry to hear about Paul, Mary Lou. I remember him fondly from the days @ ADH central office. He was a nice man. My sympathies to you & your family.
Teresa Gates
#20
Jun 24th, 2020 2:22 pm
Mary Lou,
Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Teresa Gates (Van Buren County)


Scott Connerly
#19
Jun 22nd, 2020 6:50 am
Love and prayers to Tom and the Menefee clan.
Maria Jones
#18
Jun 21st, 2020 7:37 am
Deepest sympathy to you and your family, Mary Lou. He was such a special man. I learned so much from both of you during your time at the Health Department.
Emmanuel McKeever
#17
Jun 20th, 2020 8:30 pm
My sincere condolences go out to John, Tom and the Menefee family. If there is anything you should need please do not hesitate to reach out to me. My prayers are with you all.
Reginald Rogers
#16
Jun 19th, 2020 6:25 pm
Mary Lou, John, Joe, Tom and Tim and Family: May God grant you strength at this time of loss. Mr.. Menefee was a great Catholic family man who raised a wonderful family with his lovely wife, Mary Lou. they were both excellent employees at the deaprtment of health where I work. I will always treasure the signed copy of State Police Officer Tim McCarthy's book about Notre Dame football game sayings that he would do towards the end of the games. We shared our love of the Irish ! The road goes ever on and until we meet again , may he rest in the Palm of His Hand ! Go Irish !!! Reg Rogers Catholic High '77 , Notre Dame '81
Aurian Zoldessy
#15
Jun 19th, 2020 3:40 pm
Paul was a wonderful caring man with a big laugh I loved to hear. He will be missed.
Robert Menefee Abington PA
#14
Jun 19th, 2020 1:50 pm
My deepest sympathy to Aunt Mary Lou and the family.
Mark Ward
#13
Jun 18th, 2020 7:23 pm
I was lucky to call him friend. He will be missed.
Patty Powell Craig
#12
Jun 18th, 2020 12:12 pm
My sincere condolences to Mary Lou and family. Jim and Mary Powell were my parents and I remember the Menefee's as great friends while we lived in West Peoria growing up.
Susan Kuehner
#11
Jun 18th, 2020 10:09 am
My thoughts and prayers for Tom and his family during this time of loss. May God Bring you comfort and peace.



Sue and BrianWilkins.
#10
Jun 18th, 2020 10:03 am
In this time of loss, we hope your memories bring you peace.
❤️Sue and Brian
Nancy Butler
#9
Jun 18th, 2020 9:05 am
Prayers for the family. Paul was quite a character and I know he will be deeply missed. Much love.
Carol Cychol Wrape
#8
Jun 18th, 2020 8:53 am
Mary Lou and family,
We were so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. There are fond memories of you and Paul visiting and trading Peoria stories with our late parents in Little Rock. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the Menefee family during this sad time.
Richards Honda Yamaha
#7
Jun 18th, 2020 8:31 am
We are so sorry for your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

The staff of Richards Honda Yamaha
Jin winchell
#6
Jun 18th, 2020 5:08 am
Sorry to here this prays be with the family
Howard Soper
#5
Jun 18th, 2020 4:29 am
To Joe,Alex,and your other families:My prayers are for all of you at your time of loss-please be careful coming back to Illinois.Danny Soper.
Brian & Tricia McGann
#4
Jun 17th, 2020 7:58 pm
May you Rest In Peace uncle Paul and please hug Molly for us all!
Kelly (Hajnal) Long
#3
Jun 17th, 2020 7:14 pm
If you have ever heard the term "what you see is what you get", that was Paul. He was an original. Not to be forgotten. Praying for the entire Menefee clan.
Schuyler Newell
#2
Jun 17th, 2020 6:40 pm
I’m so sorry papa Joe and my high school buddy Zach for the loss. If you guys ever need anything I’m here for you
Tammy wakefield
#1
Jun 16th, 2020 3:05 pm
Prayers for Mary Lou and family. Paul is home now and out of pain

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