Richard Colburn Butler III

Richard Colburn Butler III

Sep 21, 1937 - Jun 4th, 2020
  • Birth Date: Sep 21, 1937
  • Death Date: Jun 4, 2020
  • Funeral Date: Unknown
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Biography: Richard Colburn Butler III died in Little Rock on June 4, 2020. He was born September 21, 1937, at Trinity Hospital, 20th and Main Streets in Little Rock, AR to Gertrude Marjorie Remmel and Richard C. Butler. His grandparents were Edna Clok and R. Colburn Butler and Ellen Lucy (Nell) Cates and Augustus Caleb Remmel.

He is survived by his aunt, Jean Remmel FitzSimmons, of Southampton, NY; his cousins, Pratt Cates Remmel, Jr., Rebecca Couch Remmel, Mary Elizabeth Remmel Wohlleb, Raymond Roland Remmel, Nan Ellen Dickinson East, Haskell Lee Dickinson, II and Remmel Tyndall Dickinson, all of Little Rock; Kathryn Winn Eoff of Wimberley, TX.; Alexandra Cary Remmel Swoope and Harmon Lawrence Remmel of New York City; Rosalyn Jane Remmel Morgan of Lawton, IA; Emily Karen Remmel Lowry of Fayetteville, AR; his partner, Jeremy Carroll; and his “Sweetheart Darling” Dianne Mattinson.

He was predeceased by his parents, his cousins Marguerite Butler, Katheryn Fuess Clement, Catherine Remmel Matthews, Ruth Ellen Remmel, Marguerite Fuess Sidner and James Buchanan Winn III, and aunts and uncles Dorothy Butler Fuess, Kathryn Butler Winn, Harmon L. Remmel II, Augustus C. Remmel, Jr., Pratt Cates Remmel, Roland Rowe Remmel and Carrie Remmel Dickinson.

Richard was educated in the Little Rock and Alexandria, VA, public schools and was graduated from Central High School in Little Rock. He received an AB in History from Washington & Lee University in Lexington, VA, in 1959 and a Bachelor of Laws (now a Juris Doctor) from the University of Arkansas School of Law in Fayetteville in 1962. He studied at the University of Missouri in Columbia, and was graduated with a trust diploma from the Southwestern Graduate School of Banking at Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX.

He served six years in the 431st Civil Affairs Company of the U.S. Army Reserve, with six months of active duty at Fort Polk, LA. After he returned to Little Rock, Richard practiced general law at House Holmes & Jewell from 1963 to 1968. He then became a trust officer for Commercial National Bank of Little Rock, serving there for 13 years.Richard was a board member and eventually asked to take on professional management of CONTACT, a telephone ministry funded by several churches including First United Methodist Church of Little Rock that provided psychotherapeutic counseling by telephone. He was available almost 24/7 at the nonprofit until it closed in 1984.

 His next employment journey was as a personal assistant to philanthropist Lucy Lockett Cabe and others. He worked with the late Mrs. Cabe for 18 years and loved being a part of her support for the visual and performing arts. When Mrs. Cabe moved to Dallas, TX, to be with her family during her last years, Richard moved to Washington, AR, where he had property and restored the Noel Owen Log House (1842), moved from Blue Bayou near Nashville. He kept dual residency in Washington and Little Rock until 2018.
A lifelong Wesleyan, Richard served his church, First United Methodist Church of Little Rock, on parish committees for Music, Worship, Ecumenical Affairs, and Mission & Outreach.

Always active in civic and community affairs, Richard was one of the incorporators and is a former board member of Big Brothers of Pulaski County (now Big Brothers/Big Sisters). Other boards on which he served include the Arkansas Chamber Singers, Arkansas Council of Churches and Synagogues (now Interfaith Alliance), Arkansas Genealogical Society, Arkansas Symphony Orchestra Society, Central Arkansas Chapter of the American Guild of Organists, Chamber Music Society of Little Rock, Community Concerts Association, Gertrude Remmel Butler Child Development Center, Little Rock Wind Symphony, Mainstream (a support group for disabled persons to live independently), Oakland-Fraternal Historic Cemetery Park, Pioneer Washington Restoration Foundation, Quapaw Quarter Association, Historic Preservation Alliance of Arkansas (now Preserve Arkansas), Scott Connections, UAMS Advisory Board for Psychiatric Research and UAMS Jones Eye Institute, He was a member of the Kiwanis Club of Little Rock, the Heritage Seekers Genealogy Club and the United Methodist Historical Association Museum.He enjoyed traveling, especially with the Arkansas Arts Center traveling seminars and inspecting Institute of Cultural Affairs human development projects in Germany, Egypt and India. Also, inspired by Mary Fletcher Worthen and Peg Newton Smith, he enjoyed being a tour guide at Mount Holly Cemetery.

Richard worked diligently in historic preservation to help people growing up in the 21st century to understand the charm of Little Rock’s and Arkansas’s past so that it would not be forgotten. He owned, restored or maintained historic houses in the 400 block of East 10th Street and the First Hotze House of Little Rock. He and Jeremy were restoring Palmer House in Monroe County when it suddenly was destroyed by fire in 2013. Richard received a 2019 National Historic Preservation Medal—one of 30 national medals awarded each year by the Historic Preservation Committee of the Daughters of the American Revolution—for his untiring efforts to  preserve and support historic structures throughout the state. He was the recipient of the Jimmy Strawn Award for his work in historic preservation from the Quapaw Quarter Association.

He served on the Pulaski County Republican Committee, the 2nd Congressional District Republication Committee and the State Republican Committee. He was Pulaski County Election Commissioner from 1966-68 and 1984-86. Richard called himself “an Abraham Lincoln, Theodore Roosevelt, Dwight Eisenhower, George Bush Republican.” He enjoyed attending seven Republican National Conventions as part of the Arkansas delegation.

Services will be planned for a later date. Private burial will be in Mount Holly Cemetery, officiated by Reverend David Freeman.

Memorial donations may be made to the Kiwanis Activities Fund for Camp Pfeifer, The Chapel Fund at Presbyterian Village, Little Rock, AR, The Gertrude Remmel Butler Child Development Center of First United Methodist Church, Little Rock, AR; Butler Center for Arkansas Studies at the Central Arkansas Library System or Gertrude Remmel Butler Fund for Neuro-ophthalmology at the Jones Eye Institute of the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences.

Condolences(29)
Rosalyn Remmel Morgan
#29
Sep 21st, 2020 2:07 am
Love you my cousin. You will be greatly missed
Bobbie Brannum
#28
Jun 27th, 2020 1:30 pm
Richard was a very good wonderful friend i really miss him he was my trust officer at first Commercial Bank we continue being a close friends he always gave me good advice i liked riding with him going out to eat remember spending some time at his house i enjoyed very much listening to him play the piano Richard didn't like me out walking it seems like one time he got to see my mother he was one of my best friends in Little Rock there be no other person as great & wonderful as Richard was lots of good memories
AJ Kelly
#27
Jun 18th, 2020 7:59 pm
Rest In Peace, friend. Richard and I knew each other through some of his County Committee work, as well as other areas. When I served on the Capitol Zoning District Commission, Richard was a frequent guest and occasional commenter.... Always pulling for the good guys in the Capitol Zoning area. He never let on how well accomplished he was. He was simply a good friend; a loyal supporter; and a dedicated public servant. We will miss him. Condolences to his family, Jeremy, and Tim.
Margaret Ellis-Bessette
#26
Jun 15th, 2020 2:33 pm
I was very sad to hear of Richard's passing. I remember the first time I met him. He approached very deliberately and introduced himself and then took out a small notebook and pencil . With a twinkle in his eye, he asked me to carefully spell my name and my daughter's name. A memorable introduction that led to a friendship for the next 30 years. Richard was always an excellent, caring and amusing friend. I will miss his Twelfth Night party, amazing conversational skills and impromptu tours of projects he was working on. My condolences to his cousins - he loved you dearly and was grateful for your company.
Susan Matthews
#25
Jun 13th, 2020 11:35 am
I would like to extend my condolences to the Richard Butler family along with my appreciation for his many philanthropic and volunteer contributions to our nation, state and local community. I remember him as a gracious and kind man from First Methodist Church in Little Rock where I grew up. His cousin and my long time friend, Karen Remmel Lowry, has been a loving and kind support for many years. My best regards.
Scotty and Ed Shively
#24
Jun 12th, 2020 7:57 pm
Richard was one of the first people I met when we moved to Little Rock and joined FUMC. He was always very kind and friendly to me Ed and me. My condolences to all the Remmel cousins. Richard was a good man and will be missed.
Elsa Crocker
#23
Jun 11th, 2020 4:09 pm
One of my favorite people! Loved his family, life and Little Rock!!
Gina Mayhew
#22
Jun 9th, 2020 4:39 pm
My son needed to attend the UAMS Psychiatric Research for one month. Being on the board brings a thankfulness from our hearts. Blessings on your family.
Bronson Jacoway
#21
Jun 8th, 2020 3:22 pm
The Butler's and the Jacoway's go back a long way. My mother and father were very close to Dick and Gertie and I grew-up tripping to the Butler's every Christmas morning where my dad always exchanged ties with Richard Senior.
Although I have been away from Little Rock since 1962 I have many great memories of having play dates with young "Dickie", as he was called back then.
Richard was a gentle soul who never had a harsh word and was always a friend to many who made his acquaintance. He was proud of being a Little Rock native and frequently promoted it both financially and emotionally.
The world is in need of more "Richard Butler's" and he will be missed.
Rest easy, my friend. I hope to be with you again. Just not too soon!
Bronson Jacoway
Edward Joey Miller
#20
Jun 8th, 2020 12:47 pm
In a better place, no longer in pain. Through my life few people have touch me and showed me kindness, Richard was one! I will miss my cousin and friend greatly.
Joyce Graves
#19
Jun 8th, 2020 11:40 am
I am saddened to hear about the death of Richard. He was a great man and a great friend.I had the pleasure of knowing Richard for 11 years from Historic Washington State Park In Washington Arkansas. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and with Jeremy and Tim as they lay him to rest.
Lillian Porter
#18
Jun 7th, 2020 7:56 pm
I will miss Richard. My deepest sympathy to his family and all who knew him. This city and this state have lost a
great man.
Peggy Gross
#17
Jun 7th, 2020 2:46 pm
Such an accomplished person. Rest in peace.
Catherine and Howard Cockrill
#16
Jun 7th, 2020 2:26 pm
Dear Remmel family, We certainly feel as if we have lost a family member ourselves as Youngs and Cockrills have a long and loving association with all of you. We will miss Richard at church! Affectionately Catherine and Howie
Kathi Jones
#15
Jun 7th, 2020 1:27 pm
Richard was such a kind and wonderful man. Dave and I send our condolences to his loved ones. He will be missed.
Karen Ford
#14
Jun 7th, 2020 1:25 pm
I am so Sorry for your loss. Richard will be missed in the downtown community. His smile warmed many hearts.
Mary Ann Lee
#13
Jun 7th, 2020 12:21 pm
Richard was a dear friend for years and years. He was so much a part of my life at church, always gracious and willing to help with any and everything. He cared so deeply about the well-being of others and was always anxious to be a faithful follower of Jesus.
Gene Pfeifer
#12
Jun 7th, 2020 10:40 am
Richard was one of my very first friends. I remember our parents arranging exchanges of playdates in each other's homes at 6 or 7. He was very smart and talented. At an early age, maybe 8 or 10 he could go to the chalk board and draw the map of the 48 states including the state boundaries without once removing the chalk from the board. We were in the great class of 1955 at LRCHS. I was privileged to be mentored in preservation by Ed Cromwell and that activity kept me in occasional contact with Richard over the years. It was always a pleasure to see him at fundraisers and other civic events. He led an exemplary life of public service and I extend my deep sympathy to his extended family.
Dwight Jackson
#11
Jun 7th, 2020 10:29 am
The world has become a lesser place.
Laura Elizabeth Pruitt Joseph
#10
Jun 7th, 2020 7:06 am
On behalf of the Pruitt and Joseph families, we will miss you terribly, and we considered you a member of the family. Love always, Sandra Dickinson Pruitt, Hollis G. Pruitt, Laura Elizabeth Pruitt Joseph, and Brad S Joseph
Peggy Lloyd
#9
Jun 7th, 2020 6:17 am
I was greatly saddened to hear of Richard's passing. I have known him for years through our common interests in Arkansas history and historic preservation and his time spent at Washington, Arkansas. My condolences go out to his many friends and family.
J. Rex Enoch and Nancy Enoch
#8
Jun 6th, 2020 10:55 pm
Richard will be missed. We feel honored to have called him our friend.
Ann Treadway Henry
#7
Jun 6th, 2020 3:12 pm
My prayers and thoughts are with the family!
Carol Rasco
#6
Jun 6th, 2020 12:58 pm
Richard was a good friend to me at First Methodist during my time in Little Rock; his friendship and counsel were valued. He was also very kind to Hamp and respected Hamp as an adult discussing more than “the weather” with him. After I left Arkansas, Richard and I continued our friendship through phone conversations. I shall miss him.
Wilson Stiles
#5
Jun 6th, 2020 12:29 pm
Richard was one of Arkansas’s great treasures. For years we went to dinner every Wednesday night, and in the lively conversations that ensued, his fervent enthusiasm for all things Arkansas was palpable, especially history, preservation, family and people, music and all the arts, religion, politics, and his many philanthropic acts. He was a pillar at First Methodist and a pioneer in the revitalization of downtown neighborhoods in Little Rock. And of course his Twelfth Night parties were legendary! His absence will leave a void difficult to fill, but he was such an inspiring force to people of all walks of life in the community, his legacy will continue in the efforts of others. My heartfelt condolences to his family and many friends.
Armistead Reasoner
#4
Jun 6th, 2020 6:58 am
Thank you Richard for all the wonderful memories and all the good you did for so so so many people.
Audrey Burtrum-Stanley & James 'Jim' Stanley, Jr.
#3
Jun 5th, 2020 5:43 pm
We are so very sorry to learn of the death of Richard. He was a friend of 40 years, having attended church together. We grew to be friends. He was very dedicated to FIRST METHODIST CHURCH. They were celebrating a special anniversary and held mini-contests on member's knowledge of the LR church. Richard was easily the winner, proving to be font of history. As a child, he noted a stained glass window portraying a woman holding a dove to her cheek, Richard confided to the congregation, he believed this 'white thing in the design' to be a large ice cream cone. Everyone turned to the window and roared with laughter. It surely did look like a D.Q. treat! Once, we shared a meal where the main topic was the vocal abilities of Florence Foster Jenkins. Richard owned some of her vintage records. He had the surrounding restaurant-customers mesmerized as he mimicked her ghastly singing. He was fun, smart, charming and interested in everything. Richard, along with his family, were generous with, and loved Arkansas -- and Arkansas is grateful and will miss him very much.
Rita Benafield Henard
#2
Jun 5th, 2020 5:26 pm
Thanks for the memories Richard I will never forget the time we were able to spend together serving our communities. You were a great inspiration. Rest In Peace with the angels and learn all the mother’s maiden names that have gone through the pearly gates. We will try to keep up your tradition. We will certainly miss you my friend.
Jay Holland
#1
Jun 5th, 2020 5:21 pm
I remember Richard from work on many church committees and disciple bible study years ago.
He was Such a good and respectful caring human being.
He was a good example to us all.

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