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Eleanor "Nell" Joyce Wax Wilson


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Jan 12th, 2019

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Biography: Flowers, rainbows, sunsets, and of course her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren were the greatest joys in the life of Eleanor Joyce Wax ?Nell? Wilson, who found her way home last Saturday, January 12th. Nell flourished as the ardent wife to Robert James Wilson, Sr, and as the steadfast matriarch of her family. She raised five children, Mary Allison (husband John), Robert James "Jim" Wilson, Jr, Doris "Lynn" Wilson (who predeceased her mother), Patricia "Pattye" Lassiter (husband Jack), and Louis Gordon Wilson (wife Jolene); helped rear another ten grandchildren, Amy Allison (wife Lesa), Wilson Allison (wife Beth), Thomas Cole (wife Renee), Robert Cole (wife Alex), Ellie Lassiter, April Lassiter, Jewell Wilson (wife Colleen), Louis A. Wilson, Brendan Wilson, and Parke Wilson; and doted on five great-grandchildren, Abby and Claire Allison, Easton White, Stella Cole, and Kennedy Cole. These individuals were the grandest results of her life?s work, because first and foremost, she saw herself as a mom to anyone she could call her own. Nell died just two weeks shy of her 92nd birthday and gracefully returned to her husband, who passed away in last July. The third and last child of Mary Eleanor Posey Wax and Louis Anthony Wax, Sr, Nell was born in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, on January 27th, 1927. Her two siblings, Louis Anthony Wax, Jr, (wife Francene), and Doris Eleanor Wax Hill, or ?Aunt T,? (husband Harry) both predeceased her. She grew up in Woodville, Mississippi, and then attended Louisiana State University, where she enrolled to become a schoolteacher. She met Bob at LSU and married him in 1948. She notoriously hated Arkansas summers, so it must have been true love for her, because she committed herself to blistering summer after summer in either Little Rock, on Lake Ouachita, or in then-rural, western Pulaski County, and thus, began a marriage that lasted over seventy years. Her life was rich and adventurous: though a little girl from the delta, Nell created a huge family, forged a marvelous network of friends, and traveled to wonderful places all over the US, Canada, and Europe. To those who knew Nell, she belonged in a class of her own, for her quiet grace, fierce love, and eager kindness had no equals. She was a nurturer by nature. While her husband, Bob, was the garrulous and quintessential Romeo, Nell acted as the glue that connected everyone and everything together for her family. She taught all her family that you never let the sun set on a quarrel, you cannot un-say anything, getting old wasn?t for sissies, and you never go to bed with a dirty kitchen. When she was not feeding you her spaghetti or roast beef or sharing a shrimp cocktail and ?tini? with you, she was holding your hand and having a nice visit with you. She enjoyed good family time above all. To her family, she was Mamaw, Memaw, Mawmaw, Memes, Memesies, and countless other spellings. She lost herself in the love of others. She emoted kindness always and desired to comfort others always. We will miss her tenderness and care, her short but sweet phone calls, her laugh, and the trips so many of us took with her to Wye Mountain so she could see the jonquils. Our family would like to thank the nurses, caregivers, and staff at Foxridge, Hospice Home Care, and First Choice Senior Care. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Back Pack Program at St. Margaret?s Episcopal Church (20900 Chenal Pkwy, Little Rock, AR 72223). This program provides food to children who experience food insecurity. Make checks payable to ?St. Margaret?s Episcopal Church? and in the memo line include ?Back Pack/Outreach/Nell Wilson.? Quoting her favorite hymn, we gladly ask for friends to ?come and sing the song with gladness as your hearts are filled with joy? at a reception to celebrate Nell that will be held at Ruebel Funeral Home (6313 W Markham St.) on Monday, January 21st, from 11 o?clock A.M. to 1 o?clock P.M. In her rest, Nell rejoins her parents, friends and family members, and especially her husband, Bob, and daughter, Lynnie (d. 2002).

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Harry and Sandra Hill
#11
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
So sorry to hear of my wonderful, Aunt Nell Wax Wilson?s passing but am sure she is now much better off with her wonderful husband, Bob, and will be watching over all of her wonderful kids, and grandkids!! Love and condolences to all of her Family. Harry and Sandra Hill and family
Pam Wardlaw Cathey
#10
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I am sorry for your loss of a truly "Southern Lady". The Wardlaws and the Wilsons have spent numerous hours together on Lake Ouachita. A lot of fun was had by all. I have no doubt that Gail and Fay Wardlaw greeted Nell, with a warm hug and a "tini". My heart goes out to all of the Wilsons. May you all be comforted by your abundant memories of your wonderful Momma.
Lenore Merrell
#9
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Nell was a true lady and was always so nice to be around. My parents adored her and had so many good times with her and Bob. I am sure Virginia met her with a ?tini?. I am so sorry for your loss, Lenore Wilson Merrell
Cecile Lashar
#8
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I had the privilege of being one of ?Nell?s? caregivers from First Choice Senior Care. From my first day with her we became fast friends as did all the caregivers. Everyone loved sweet Nell and she loved everyone back. She was like a Grandmother to me. Nell always met me with a hand to hold and a genuine concern for my wellbeing. She was a kind, sweet, generous soul, putting everyone else before herself. She was most proud of her children. They are her crowning glory. She loved them all fiercely and brought them all up to be amazing people. Each different in their own way, but all instilled with the importance of family. Nell?s children were all dedicated to taking care of their parents always and honored them with their care. A day did not go by when at least one of her children or her daughter-in-law Jolene who she thought of as her own daughter, would not visit her. I have personally never seen a family more dedicated to their parents. Nell was strong, always trying her hardest. She had a heart for all animals, except alligators, her favorite being dogs. She taught me so much without even knowing it. She was class and style. Heaven is her reward. She left a legacy of all that she was in each of her children. Nell, you are missed but never forgotten. I will always carry you in my heart. Cecile Lashar.
Dr. & Mrs. Peter L. Couvillon
#7
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
What a true fine Christian Southern Lady who we enjoyed seeing over the years both in Little Rock & Lake Houseboat!!! And to think Mama Nell, Pattye & Jim flew in from Little Rock on their private plane for our Marksville, LA. special Wedding/Reception of August 16th, 1974!!!! Wow!!!
May God Bless Mama Nell and her entire Wilson Family!!!!
Love,
Carla & Peter Couvillon
Alexandria, LA.
SD
#6
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
My sincere condolences to the family Wilson for the lost of your beloved mother Eleanor. That our God keeps her in his memory in the day of the resurrection. Acts 24:15, and give her everlasting life here on the earth in a renewed paradise in a near future. Psalms 37:11,29, that the peace of God be with the family.
Claudette Cirks
#5
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Such a kind and gracious lady! My earliest memories of Asbury include so many of the Wilson family. I am sorry for your loss.
Kathy Kaczmarek
#4
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Words cannot express the special friendship I shared with Nell... she was like my "second mother", and gladly adopted me into her family. She was what you would call a TRUE southern lady, and her kindness and positive attitude was an inspiration. I will miss our talks, our prayers, and our love, but am so glad that today Nell is with her beloved Bob, and all is well.
Prayers for the family....
Becky Burgess
#3
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I grew up loving each member of the Wilson family...as your family grew larger, so grew my love for each one of you. That love started with your grandparents and continued through each generation. There are no words to describe the respect that I have for your late grandparents and parents, Bob and Nell. The description of your mother as having a "quiet grace" about her is how I will always remember her. My deceased parents, Al and Ova, would say to you today that they were forever indebted to your grandparents and parents for the generous love and support they received from them. They loved and respected the Wilson family and I carry on that same love and respect. You are blessed with wonderful memories...may those memories give you comfort and peace.
Charlie McGrew
#2
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Aunt Nell and Uncle Bob as I called them,were such giving and loving people. Even though I was not blood kin, their love for me and my family won?t ever be forgotten. Her strength thru love and caring is a model for what we all should strive for. Lifting the family up in prayers and hugs. She was truly exceptional.
Myra Harris
#1
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I thought so much of Nell. She encouraged me so much when I directed ACCDC. I enjoyed having some of her grandchildren in the program. She always was so positive and loving. She will be missed.

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