Barbara Benton Patty

Barbara Benton Patty


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Feb 21st, 2014

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Biography: Barbara Benton Patty passed away on February 21, 2014, following a brief illness. She was born in Little Rock, Arkansas, on June 22, 1943, and was raised in Fordyce, Arkansas. Her parents were Sarah Kathryn Rhodes Benton and William Robert ?W.R.? Benton, Jr, both of Fordyce. She attended the Fordyce schools, graduating from Fordyce High School (Home of the Red Bugs) as Valedictorian in 1960. She then attended Wellesley College in Massachusetts, earning her Bachelors of Arts degree in Political Science in 1964. Her time at Wellesley was very impactful and she remained a dedicated alumna throughout her life. After graduating from Wellesley, she moved to Washington D.C. and worked in Public Affairs for the United States Department of Education from 1964 to 1966. In 1966, she returned to Arkansas and worked in the Winthrop Rockefeller Gubernatorial Campaign, then as the Executive Assistant to Lt. Governor Maurice ?Footsie? Britt. Following her work with Lt. Gov. Britt, she held multiple leadership positions at the Arkansas Department of Labor from 1968 to 1971, ultimately serving as Acting Commissioner of Labor. While living in Little Rock, she met Claibourne W. ?Clay? Patty, Jr. on a blind date arranged by Richard Butler, Jr. Richard never misses an opportunity to remind Patty family members of this fact. Barbara and Clay married in May, 1968, at Trinity Episcopal Cathedral, and had sons Claibourne, III in 1971 and Jordan in 1975. Beginning in 1971, Barbara became a stay at home mother, but maintained an active life outside of the home. As her sons grew older, the family enjoyed many weekends in Hot Springs together and annual summer trips throughout the United States, during which time Barbara would show her sons many, many historical and geographical sites. Throughout her time in Little Rock, Barbara was committed to her community and its advancement. Among her many activities, she was a dedicated parishioner of Christ Episcopal Church, was a member of the Arkansas Symphony Orchestra Guild (President, 1973-1975), served in the Volunteers in the Public Schools (President, 1979-1980), was active in the Arkansas Symphony Orchestra Society (President, 1982-1983), and sang in both the Christ Episcopal Church choir and the Arkansas Symphony Orchestra Chorus. In the mid-1980s, Barbara pursued a new career in education. She taught fourth grade at East End Elementary from 1986 to 1988, then fifth grade at Pulaski Heights Elementary from 1990 to 1993, winning multiple awards for her teaching ability. During this time, she also obtained her Master of Science in Education at the University of Arkansas at Little Rock in 1989, earning the Dean?s Citation of Excellence for her 4.0 GPA. In 1993, she moved from teaching to working in the Arkansas Department of Education, serving as the Social Studies Specialist in Academic Standards and Assessment from 1993 to 2000, then as a Program Advisor in Professional Quality Enhancement from 2000 to 2004. In 2004, Barbara decided it was time to retire. Although technically ?retired,? Barbara remained quite busy by pursuing activities that greatly enriched her life. Among her many interests, she joined the Pulaski County Master Gardner Program in 2005, working on the Clinton Library Scholars Garden and the Arkansas Arts Center Courtyards. She also became a docent at the Arkansas Arts Center, learning about many exhibits and installations while assisting visitors. Retirement also allowed Barbara more time to be more involved with the Little Rock Aesthetic Club, becoming President in 2013. Although she had many interests in life, Barbara?s (or Bee, as her grandchildren called her) greatest joy was spending time with family, all of whom will miss her deeply but cherish her memory. Her survivors include husband, Claibourne Watkins Patty, Jr.; brother, William Evans Benton; sons (and their wives), Claibourne Watkins Patty, III (April) and William Jordan Patty (Julie); beloved grandchildren, Eliza Kathryn (11), Nathaniel Claibourne (5), Eleanor Margaret (2), and Ethan Nicholas (1). A funeral service will be held at Christ Episcopal Church in Little Rock on Friday, February 28, 2014, at 11 am with the Reverend Scott Walters officiating. A private interment will take place at Mount Holly Cemetery in Little Rock. The family will receive visitors at the family home from 5 to 7 pm on Thursday, February 27, 2014. In lieu of flowers, Barbara?s family asks that memorials be made to the Arkansas Symphony Orchestra and the Christ Episcopal Church Endowment Fund. Arrangements are under the direction of Ruebel Funeral Home, www.ruebelfuneralhome.com

Condolences(21)
Taylor Atkins
#21
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Our deepest condolences to the family. We lived across Midland St from the Pattys 1981-86, and valued their friendship. I used to sit for Claibourne and Jordan. Barbara was a wonderful friend and neighbor who always stayed in touch with us after we left LR. We miss you and pray for you in this sad time.
Kathryn Searcy
#20
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
May Jesus Christ give you peace and comfort as sweet memories flood your mind. Praying for you and yours.
Reginald Rogers
#19
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Clay and family: I just heard about the passing of your beloved wife. I remember meeting her several times at the movies and other events. She was a beautiful lady who was always gracious and elegant! I know she shared your love of opera! On behalf of the Gaines House Board of Directors,we extend our condolences and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family at this time of loss! May she rest in the Peace of Christ! Reg Rogers and the Gaines House Board of Directors
Brenda Turner
#18
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I am so sorry. Barbara was an insightful lady, smart and a true friend. Oh what a great humor and smile.
Brenda Turner
#17
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
So sorry for your loss. Barbara was an insightful , caring woman and a TRUE friend.
Steven Bullock
#16
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I normally post in funeral home sites, but in this case I feel I must.
Barbara changed my life, over and over again.
First, she was on the committee that hired me to be the Oganist/Choirmaster at Christ Church in 1987...
Other times have been when I felt like my creativity was at a low and she would say the most encouraging things.

I will never forget that she told me once that I was the best service player she ever knew. Made my day..and more.

I will miss her for the rest of my life.
Audrey Burtrum-Stanley & Jim Stanley, Jr.
#15
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Dear Clay & family --

We are grieved to learn of the passing of your precious wife. Please know our prayers will include you and all your loved-ones names; May The Almighty grant you Understanding and Peace. Although it's difficult to see beyond this sorrow, may looking-back-in-memory comfort you through all your tomorrows.

We send you a hug and our sincere condolences.

Ed Crowe
#14
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Barbara and Clay were Ben Crowe's co-parents during much of his time growing up in Little Rock, which gave Ben's parents the chance to know Barbara and Clay over the years. It is so clear that Barbara was a very special person--for her family, for their friends, for the Little Rock and Arkansas communities. My condolences and heartfelt feelings to the Patty family.
Larry and Paulette Mabry
#13
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
We will always remember Barbara's smile and quick wit. She will be missed by all whose lives were touched by her service and friendship. We extend our sympathy and prayers to Clay and the family.

Larry and Paulette
Bettie Lu Lancaster
#12
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
It's hard to imagine Arkansas without Barbara, and even harder to imagine the Wellesley Club without her. She contributed so much to so many of us. Our world's a better place because of her.
James E. Hays
#11
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Barbara and I were class mates and I have very fond memories of her. I have thought of her often over the years.
Porter Briggs
#10
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Barbara was gracious, smart, and always friendly to me. I send along my condolences to her family.

Porter
John Leoniak and Family
#9
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
We are sorry for your family's loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prays.
Annette Delgado
#8
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Clay and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find Peace in God's Love. Know that Barbara will never be forgotten.

Annette
and family
Brian Plaster
#7
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Jordan, you are in my thoughts. I offer my sincere condolences. I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. She was always so kind to me whenever I came through Little Rock. I loved talking to her- the last time I saw her was at your wedding. She was so proud of you!
Elizabeth Fortune
#6
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Jordan- I am so sorry for your loss.
Benjamin Crowe & Kristin Smith-Crowe
#5
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
We will both miss Barbara so much. She was an unforgettable person. From putting up with Ben's teenaged antics to celebrating our wedding with us, she was a part of more important moments in our lives than we can count. She was always gracious, hospitable and ready to talk. Our hearts reach out to Jordan, both Claibournes, and Barbara's whole family.
Whitney Bauman
#4
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Will always have a special place in my heart for Barbara as she had one for me. She was like a second mom, and Jordan and I have been best friends since the 2nd grade. Too many memories of Lake visits, special Barbara songs, and others to recount here. She had a big impact on my life! Will miss you Barbara!
Mike and Kathy Mathiowetz
#3
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Mike and I are so sorry for your loss. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Julie Henderson Chavis
#2
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I was so saddened to hear of Barbara's passing. In the winter of 1980, she interviewed me as part of my application to Wellesley. She has a very special place in my heart, and I always enjoyed her company at the many Wellesley functions that she hosted. She will live on in the hearts of her Wellesley sisters.
Kevin Brannon
#1
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am

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