Alma Lindsey Gaines


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Mar 27th, 2013

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Biography: ALMA LINDSEY GAINES of Little Rock passed away peacefully on Wednesday, March 27, 2013, at the age of 87. She was born November 30, 1925, to William Albert and Laura May Cox Lindsey of Bauxite, who preceded her in death. Alma, the youngest of five children, grew up in the rural Alcoa mining community of Bauxite and graduated from Bauxite High School in 1943. After graduating she worked several years in the Saline County Clerk?s office where she developed a love of politics and eventually for Fones Brothers Hardware and Furniture Company in Little Rock. It was there she met the love of her life and her future husband, Bill Gaines. They were married on August 18, 1956, and four years later were blessed with the birth of their only daughter, Kay. She was very successful at Fones Brothers, becoming a department supervisor and, in her words, ??one of the top paid girls in the office.? But in January 1964, Alma made a decision that would change not only her life, but the lives of hundreds of women just like her. Just four months before, Mary Kay Cosmetics had been founded in Dallas, Texas, by Mary Kay Ash. After hearing about the company from a niece, she saved up the $25 for her first ?product showcase? and then, along with Bill, drove to Dallas on a Friday night and met with Mary Kay at her office the next morning. Mary Kay took Alma?s name, address and phone number, handed her the product showcase, patted her on the shoulder and said, ?God bless you, honey. I know you?ll do well.? With that, Alma became the 33rd consultant in the history of the company and the first in Arkansas. Alma thrived with Mary Kay, being named the company?s 36th Director, 36th National Sales Director and a member of both their Millionaires Club and the Mary Kay Foundation Board of Directors. Her hard work earned her one of the coveted pink Cadillacs for the first time in 1973, and she drove one every year after that until her retirement 20 years later. Her enthusiasm, perseverance and positive attitude helped influence women in the Mary Kay organization across the United States and Canada, including some of today?s most successful consultants and directors. When she retired in 1993, Alma was joined onstage by her family and Mary Kay herself. There, in front of thousands of Mary Kay associates in the New Orleans Convention Center, a video started playing on the large screens ? and when the image of newly elected President Bill Clinton appeared with a personal message of congratulations to Alma on her retirement, the entire hall erupted with shrieks, cheers and thunderous applause. Alma was not only a leader in her professional life, but also helped lead her loving, extended family throughout her life as she followed Mary Kay?s philosophy of ?God First, Family Second, Career Third.? In addition to being a wonderful wife and mother, she was always coordinating holidays, birthdays and reunions for the family. Her excellent cooking skills could create anything from a small, delicious dinner at home to a holiday spread for dozens of family members and friends. As a host, Alma?s warm and fun-loving personality always made every visitor to her home feel like family. She was also an avid sports fan ? and especially fond of both college and professional football and basketball. Alma loved to fish, and her favorite game was video poker on casino trips with Bill and her nieces. She was preceded in death by her parents, her sister Pearl Lindsey West, her brother Earl Lindsey, her brother Ervin Lindsey and his wife Vivian, her brother Marvin Lindsey and his wife Martha Sue, niece Blanche Forrester and her husband Ron, nephew Larry Lindsey, and her husband of 54 years, Bill Gaines. Alma is survived by her daughter and best friend, Kay Gaines Stebbins, and her beloved granddaughters Laura Lindsey Stebbins and Anna Caroline Stebbins, who will always remember her as their ?Audie.? She is survived by her sister-in-law, Willie Mae Lindsey; several close nieces and nephews, including: Sue (Jerry) Truelove; Mary Beth (Kenneth) Crafton; Sandra (Jimmy) Bermingham; Tom Lindsey; and Marvin (Sonja) Lindsey. Alma is also survived by many great nieces and nephews, cousins, her Mary Kay family and countless friends. The family wishes to thank Peggy Bailey and Arkansas Hospice for the loving care and compassion they provided to Alma. Visitation will be from 5 ? 7 p.m. on Sunday, March 31, 2013, at Ruebel Funeral Home, 6313 Markham Street in Little Rock. Funeral will be at 11 a.m. on Monday, April 1, 2013, at the funeral home with the Reverend Doctor Russell Snapp officiating. Graveside service will follow at Forest Hills Memorial Park. The family requests that memorials be made to Arkansas Hospice, the Mary Kay Foundation or a favorite charity. Arrangements by Ruebel Funeral Home, www.ruebelfuneralhome.com.

Condolences(13)
Brenda Theriot
#13
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Alma was my Mary Kay director for many years. She was an exeptional woman. I will always remember her with a smile on her face. My prayers and condolences go out to Alma's family.

Brenda Theriot
Linda Carol Wilson Keeney
#12
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Kay, your mother was a wonderful lady and friend to my mother. She will truly be missed. My mother is in a nursing home now and I am sorry Becky and I cannot make it to express our condolences in person. Some of my favorite childhood memories are of time with spent with your parents and you as a child. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love, Linda Carol, Becky and Linda Wilson
Diane Campbell
#11
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Kay,
I am so sorry to hear about MS.Alma.My heart goes out to you all.I loved her dearly and am thankful for the years I got to work for her.She was always a blessing to me and my children. She will be greatly missed but never forgotten.LOVE AND PRAYERS GO UP FOR YOU.
Perry and Kim Jones
#10
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Kay, Our love and prayers are with you and your daughters at this time. We will pray for God's grace and strength to be with you. May God Bless and Comfort you!
Diana Nix
#9
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Kay,
I'm truly sorry for your loss. My prayers will be for you and your family.
Diana
Bill and Debra Short
#8
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Kay, we pray for God's peace to comfort you during this time. Thanks for letting us know about your mom. We pray God's blessing on you and your family.
Terri (Bennett) Wallace
#7
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Kay, I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. I'm praying for you and your family for peace and strength. She was a remarkable lady. I know you miss her terribly.
God Bless, Terri
Rissa Burchfield Nettles
#6
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Kay....
I am so sorry to hear of Alma passing. I have many early memories that include both your mother and father. I always respected both of them. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your sweet girls. Love, hugs, and jprayers.
Rissa Burchfield Nettles
Lica Levy Healy
#5
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Much love to you and yours Kay. I remember so clearly how you and I shared early on that we were only children and shared a deep love and respect for our parents. I ironically lost Mom when she was 87 as well. How blessed we were to have them as long as we did, here on this earth. And I know we will both see our parents again. This part of the journey we have to move on until we rejoin them. You too have been blessed with such wonderful guidance from your parents and I trust you will feel it and use it everyday ..and share it with your beautiful daughters. Peace and comfort to you my dear friend and sorority sister. I wish I could be there to pay respects in person.
Susie Robinson Cross
#4
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
My deepest sympathies to Kay, Robert, Laura, Caroline, and the rest of Mrs. Alma's family. I have vivid memories of her from my childhood when Kay and I attended school together and played together in the neighborhood. I remember the way she cared for Bill and Kay, how she kept a lovely home, and of course, her pink Cadillac. I didn't fully appreciate then the strength of character and various skills she possessed to become so successful in a sales organization. Her unique Southern accent rings in my ears; she pronounced my name as if it had three syllables.
Marty Ulmer
#3
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I will miss Alma's funny stories, beautiful laugh and most of all her friendship. She always lifted everyone up and her Go Give Spirit to always help others with their Mary Kay goals. She lived life to the fullest and enjoyed making people feel good. We are going to miss Arkansas First Lady in Mary Kay.
Robert Stebbins
#2
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
A blessing to all who knew her. Love and peace to Alma and her entire wonderful family.
Pat Fisher
#1
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Alma and I met almost 50 years ago and became instant friends and what a ride we had. She had a dynamic personality that you were drawn to and I feel so fortunate to have known her and her family, and we loved each other like sisters! I already miss her and my heart hurts for her family

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