Alex Tharp Gillespie, Jr.


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Dec 11th, 2011

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Biography: Alex Gillespie died on Sunday, December 11, 2011 in Bentonville, Arkansas. Alex was born on Christmas Eve, 1951 to Miriam Smith Gillespie and Alex Tharp Gillespie M.D. Alex was a 1970 graduate of Hall High School. He attended Westminster College and graduated from the University of Arkansas in 1974. His brothers at Sigma Nu fraternity knew him as ?Goose? Gillespie. He had a terrific sense of humor and would have been a great standup comedian. His nieces and nephews remember an Uncle that was always playing practical jokes. Alex could find a funny, irreverent card for any occasion. Our mother always pretended to be ?horrified? at his hilarious, off color cards. Daily, we were reminded of his humor from his emailed jokes. Alex was a gentle giant who would give the shirt off his back to anyone. One of his last gestures was to pick names from the ?Angel Tree? to insure that children would have a Christmas. Alex loved animals and his gifts at Christmas were donation cards (even to non-animal loving relatives) to the local animal shelter. Alex would adopt strays and train them to chase ?rocks?. Alex was many things, but most important was that he was a good father. He was devoted to his daughter, Brianna. Often it is a regret at life?s end that ?I wish I would have spent less time at the office?. Not so with Alex, he was there and available for every event with Brianna. He adored his little girl and his life revolved around her. Alex was preceded in death by his mother, Miriam Ruth Gillespie, in 2007 and his grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Bernard Smith of Jonestown, Mississippi and Mr. and Mrs. Eck Gillespie of Stamford Texas. He is survived by his daughter, Brianna Ruth Gillespie of Bentonville, his father Dr. A.T. Gillespie and his wife Jane, his sister, Cathe Talpas of El Dorado and brother, Neil Gillespie of Little Rock. He is also survived by his nieces, Mimi Gavigan and Abby Considine of Little Rock, Mary Tharp Talpas of El Dorado and his nephew, Brother Nipper, of Fayetteville. Alex is also survived by his uncle, Lynn Gillespie of Abilene Texas and his aunt, Ruth Hays Smith of Clarksdale, Mississippi and his cousins, Robert, Patrick and Anne- Marie Gillespie of Abilene, Texas, Mimi Burke of Richmond Virginia and Susan Jordan of Albany, Georgia. Maddie and Emery Considine, Murphy and Jamie Gavigan will miss being ?tickled? by their Great Uncle Alex. Alex is also survived by Rebecca Davidson, his special friend and the mother of his child. Alex lived a life of laughter and kindness and we will be forever blessed to have been loved by him. To honor Alex?s life, please spend an extra moment with your child, tell a funny joke to brighten someone?s day or ring the bell for the Salvation Army. A memorial service will be held at Second Presbyterian Church on Wednesday, December 14, 2011 at 2:00 p.m. Memorials may be sent to Second Presbyterian Church, 600 Pleasant Valley Drive, Little Rock 72227. Arrangements by Ruebel Funeral Home, www.ruebelfuneralhome.com.

Condolences(12)
Sarah Jaber
#12
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Hello Neil. I just heard about Alex. I am so sorry for you, Cathy and your father. Please tell them how sorry I am for your loss. You all are in my thoughts. Please let me know if I can be any help in this difficult time. Love, Sarah.
Hi Neil, I am sorry to hear about Alex. I will be thinking about you. Tina Bopina (IHTFP)
Gerald hannahs
#11
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
God bless you dr.gillespie Alex was a fun loving honest encouraging person who wished everyone success
Bill Clark
#10
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Extended Gillespie Family: I was thankful that I had a chance to say goodbye to Alex during the graveside service, but realize that Alex will never be gone as long as any of us remain. His unique personality and wit still make me laugh out loud as I recall our good years together. Rest in Peace my friend. Bill
Alan Loeb
#9
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I was very sorry to hear of Alex's passing. I haven't seen him in years but one thing remains ever clear -- that I was never in his presence without feeling uplifted by his humor and his sense of good fun. You just don't find many people like Alex, and I will be grateful for the memory of his goodness. I wish comfort to his family and remind them to be grateful for the time they had with him.
Charley Collins
#8
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I am so sorry for your loss. Alex was a great friend to me in Jr High and High School. He and your family were always so welcoming. I'm sorry that we lost touch through the years. I smile just thinking about his great sense of humor and his ability to make all of us laugh.

I pray that God comforts you all during this difficult time. I have great confidence that Alex is in a better place.

Charley Collins
Charolette (West) Ashley
#7
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Dr. Gillespie,

Please know how very sorry I am for your
great loss. You and Dr. Porter were my
obstetricians in the 60's. As a pregnant
teenager, fearing the unknown, you always
made me more comfortable. I am asking
God to give you comfort and remove all
fears from your future, just as you did for
me those many years ago. Again, all my
sympathy to you and yours.

Sincerely,

Charolette (West) Ashley
John & Nancy Russ
#6
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
May you experience God's healing presence in the midst of your profound loss.
Martha Carvill
#5
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
My thoughts and prayers are with all of the Gillespie family. I was so sorry to hear of your loss.
Connie Clark
#4
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
To all of the Gillespie family -- you are in my thoughts and prayers. As I remember Alex, so many memories have come flooding back. I'm sure Alex was probably the first person from Little Rock that I met when my future husband, Bill Clark, brought me to Arkansas for the first time on a weekend home from college. Alex always made me laugh -- he wouldn't be satisfied until there was a smile on my face! I remember lots of fun times at the little house he lived in on Mission in Fayetteville. He and Peggy's dog, Sadie, who really did fetch rocks. Getting way too sunburned at Lake Ouachita in the summer. Football games in the yard at our house on Ora. Goldrush brownies -- Miriam's special recipe. Groomsman at our wedding in South Carolina. Sitting our oldest child on top of a bookshelf in our living room when he was a toddler -- just because he could and it was fun! And, of course, showing off pictures of his precious Brianna. Alex, we will never forget you!
Greg Bryant
#3
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
I first met Alex before we were teenagers when I would visit with my friend, Bill Clark. Then, we pledged Sigma Nu together. Very sorry to read this and my condolences to Cathe, Neil and the rest of the family.
Theo (Ted) Dillaha
#2
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
Alex was a best friend for 50+ years. He went through some tough times - more than his share. He and his unique wit will be missed but never forgotten. Rebecca's and my thoughts and prayers to Brianna, Tharp, Cathe, Neil and the rest of his family and those who loved him.
Tim and Nancy O'Brien
#1
Mar 15th, 2019 11:44 am
We are thinking about your family in this difficult time. Alex is at peace now.

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